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Clarity
« on: September 25, 2017, 01:32:54 PM »
When discussing your party parameters be very clear on what you expect. It can be a little embarrassing but remember these Ladies are professionals and it highly unlikely you will shock them or embarrass them.
I was shy with my requests the first couple times. It's natural just take your time and be clear. This saves a lot of potential misunderstandings later when you're both naked in her bed. Hopefully the Ladies will also be clear with what they are and are not providing.
One of the first questions I always ask when I'm with a new Lady is what are your rules? This will let you know immediately if you are with a Lady that will provide what you're looking for.

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Re: Clarity
« Reply #1 on: September 26, 2017, 01:36:23 AM »
I always clearly state what I want in terms of time and activities.  Then I work with price.  I have a price in mind.  If it is the first time I am meeting the lady we play the negotiating game. 

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Re: Clarity
« Reply #2 on: September 28, 2017, 05:16:36 PM »
When I negotiate, I too ask (even before money) what are your rules. There are so many deal breakers for me, I hate to waste the lady's time.  If I sense there might be a grey area, I have her spell it out.  I always give her a heads up on what I like too. 

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Re: Clarity
« Reply #3 on: November 18, 2017, 05:16:53 PM »
I will add to be cautious when using industry terms such as GFE (Girlfriend Experience) and PSE (Pornstar Experience) in negotiations. Those terms are used frequently, yet there is not an established standard and you will find that those terms mean different things to different ladies and may involve different activities. As previously stated, it's best to just specify exactly what you want.


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Re: Clarity
« Reply #4 on: November 24, 2017, 11:31:59 PM »
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I will add to be cautious when using industry terms such as GFE (Girlfriend Experience) and PSE (Pornstar Experience) in negotiations. Those terms are used frequently, yet there is not an established standard and you will find that those terms mean different things to different ladies and may involve different activities. As previously stated, it's best to just specify exactly what you want.


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Exactly and especially with PSE. Lay out what you want to do. You stick your finger in a girl's butthole and you could get a free cbt session.

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Re: Clarity
« Reply #5 on: November 26, 2017, 02:07:47 AM »
For clients that are nervous or embarrassed to discuss their fantasies just remember that I probably have heard EVERYTHING. And then some things you never could even imagine where a fetish , position ect . JUST TELL ME  :-* :-* :) :) ::) ::)

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Re: Clarity
« Reply #6 on: December 10, 2017, 07:35:22 AM »
More to the point when asking "what are your rules"...   


1)  Some ladies kiss, some dont
2)  Some ladies DEEP kiss, some dont
3)  Some ladies dont like intercourse in certain positions
4)  Some ladies do anal, some dont
5)  Some ladies will let you finger them, some wont
6)  Some ladies will let you go down on them, some wont
7)  Some ladies will let you go down on them BUT only with a dental dam.

8 ) Some ladies do 69, some dont
9)  Some ladies ask you to take a shower before partying, some dont (Point here is to ask WHEN
           your time starts if they require a shower... Nothing worse than booking a 30 minute party,
           only to find you wasted 10 minutes of it alone in the shower!)

10) Some ladies want to strip down NOW and get on with the party.  Some will be happy with a long
           slow strip and fondle session.

This list could go on and on.   My point here is if you have something you really want...  BE SPECIFIC, dont assume!


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Re: Clarity
« Reply #7 on: January 05, 2018, 03:26:59 PM »
All terrific pointers and VER VERY valid.
TO add a little funny to this though I will say the first time I heard PSE (porn star experience) I thought the gentleman wanted lights and camera......hey I am a porn performer. I wasn't aware that the belief about a PSE at least the way it was explained to me meant anything goes, including anal. It was a sort of uncomfortable discussion because working in film I know that not all performers do anal and they charge a HUGE surcharge if they do. On a film set everything and I do mean everything is negotiated and every point of negotiation has a dollar figure attached to it. MMMMM........sounds like a lot of the negotiations going on the houses doesn't it? I now understand the term of PSE but as stated above you still want to get clarification on what is and is not allowed. And as said before in all of the houses this is where YOU CAN spell it out and be graphic if needed, you won't get slapped or offend anyone worst that will happen is she says no and you talk to a different lady. Oh and one more thing if you do find the lady of your fantasy won't provide the fantasy ask yourself what is more important the overall experience perhaps with someone you never would have dreamed of talking to for whatever reason ( the way she looks, talks, height, weight, ect.) Or having that experience with a Lady who has told you it cannot happen with her.

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