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Respectful contact with a lady before a party

Offline Space Duck

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Respectful contact with a lady before a party
« on: January 10, 2018, 12:15:12 AM »
I have a question about how to contact ladies respectfully - before booking a party.


Basically, there are quite a few ladies that I am interested in, and realistically speaking, I do not have the budget to party with all of them. I do have an actual interest in getting to know the ladies a bit, and want them to have a good time as well. Which probably means a GFE.


The problem is, there are some ladies I follow on Twitter (some I'm interested in partying with, others I am not) that have Liked or posted comments stating that getting to know them is part of the experience (ie: not free). Now, I get it, the ladies are essentially selling time and attention, and bestowing both of those for free on some random guy over the internet who may not be serious about going to the brothels at all is probably not an attractive option.


Personally, I'm just not the kind of guy who can walk into a brothel, pick a lady out, do a five minute tour, negotiate a party, do the deed and leave.


How can I respectfully communicate with a lady before booking a party without without wasting her time?

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Offline KittiMinx

Re: Respectful contact with a lady before a party
« Reply #1 on: January 10, 2018, 12:26:14 AM »
Email is probably best. Not every Lady regularly checks PMs on message boards or DMs on social media. (And there are Ladies who consider DM communication or using apps like SnapChat to be "time is money".) Emails are more "official". And after some back and forth it can give you, as the customer, a good idea as to the attitude of the Lady and how she goes about her business. If in emails she pushes "so when do you want to party" you know she's not into feeling you out or helping you get comfortable feeling her out beforehand. Meanwhile there's plenty of Ladies, like myself, who have gone back and forth pleasantly with people over email for MONTHS before they came in to party or decided they want to party. Heck there's a few I've been talking to since late 2015/early 2016 that are interested but due to schedules not lining up it hasn't worked out yet - doesn't mean I blow 'em off.  ;)  But not every Lady is like this. The most important thing for partying is finding Ladies you feel comfortable with and approaching them in ways that put you at ease. Not everyone can go right to a house and pick from a lineup or a conversation in a bar - and that's perfectly okay!

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Re: Respectful contact with a lady before a party
« Reply #2 on: January 10, 2018, 06:59:32 PM »
Thanks for the advice. I start a new job on Monday, so it will be months before I can go to Nevada. Hopefully only 3 though.

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Re: Respectful contact with a lady before a party
« Reply #3 on: January 11, 2018, 04:42:42 PM »
It is a big variable.

Some girls like to market themselves using many means, including email, Twitter, varies boards, etc.
Some girls will market themselves till you party with them.  After that, they disappear.
Some girls consider marketing as work.  Their bookings show the result.  Would you pay a store clerk for information on where they keep the milk?

Some guys want a "pen pal", which maybe they consider as a "girl friend".  The house ladies will not make any money on that arrangement.
Some guys survey the field and work with the girls that respond.  However, they don't overdue it.

Go with the girl that at least will communicate with you enough to know if she is a match.  Then, when you are in the house, keep an eye out for more girls.

It is not an exact science.  Expect mistakes along the way.  Just get started.

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Re: Respectful contact with a lady before a party
« Reply #4 on: January 12, 2018, 11:06:25 AM »
Here are some tips.


  • Don't make your letter too long
  • Ask her if she does specific things
  • Be a gentleman
  • Write once and then a few days later, after that wait a week or two. No answer then let it go.
  • Always remember that she isn't at work all the time. She could be home with friends or family and that's her break time.
  • Once she responds then only respond once. Do not send multiple emails. Keep the conversation in one mail going back and forth.
  • Most brothels give you some time to talk. Some don't care and others give the girls ten minutes then another one comes to talk to you.

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Re: Respectful contact with a lady before a party
« Reply #5 on: January 17, 2018, 09:23:12 PM »
I'm like Kitti, I have emails going back and forth between myself and an individual that date back to the start of my time here on the cul-de-sac. I always try to answer my emails promtly and fast but sometimes the real world gets in the way. It may take me a bit to answer because when I have a Guest they get 100% of my attention. I really have no issue with getting to know someone before hand I actually kinda like it.
Things to consider though:
Please be respectful of what gets asked and when. I got an Email this morning that was titled "You Make me Horny" followed with very graphic details as to what the sender wanted to do to me. Now to be honest it would have been nice to get that after um a hello I'm thinking of coming in to NV in XXX.
Not all ladies are as understanding of that as I and In truth I will most likley not be sending back any Erotica but at least I know where he stands.
All the girls have differing ways they handle correspondence so it can be very helpful to finding a fit for you

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