How do you measure success in this hobby?

[Midwest Couple]

Ok, allow us get wordy and geeky at the same time. 

We believe in the science behind sex and that unique chemical reactions occur during different stages of a relationship:
- Lust (testosterone & estrogen)
- Attraction (Dopamine)
- Attachment (serotonin)

So, part of the struggle for many in a long term relationship is that people crave the hormones of the LUST & ATTRACTION stages, no matter how happy you are in the relationship.

LPIN provides that opportunity for couples to experience this together. 

So, for us - "success" isn't as much about the sexual experience with the courtesan (although we surely hope for an amazing adventure) or even in the price (we tend to just blurt out our budget and hope it's enough) but if we get "that feeling" together and those lust/attraction hormones occur for BOTH OF US AT THE SAME TIME after 20+ years of living in the attachment stage. 

And for how long we continue to relive those feelings, by looking at each other during the PTA meeting, and seeing that little twinkle in your spouses eye and know what they are thinking of. 
 

[Midwest Couple]

....I also measure it on how successfully I crush ChicagoBob in online fights. Right now I'm like MMA to his Tai Chi!

Although there've been MANY epic fights on these boards in our time, there still have been NONE with as sexy as the battles between CB and the adorable Ms. Varga! 

If that party ever happens, we'd like a front row spot please! 

[MrTShirt]

...I also measure it on how successfully I crush ChicagoBob in online fights. Right now I'm like MMA to his Tai Chi!

The one boxing match I would go to...RV and CB.  However, I want to be in the ring, up close. 

[Chicagobob]

Although there've been MANY epic fights on these boards in our time, there still have been NONE with as sexy as the battles between CB and the adorable Ms. Varga! 

If that party ever happens, we'd like a front row spot please!

Wouldn't that be awesome?  Maybe the four of us could get together for 2-Couple party?  Or better yet, both Rachel and I are dog lovers... maybe a raffle party for voyeurs with the proceeds going to the ASPCA!    We could call it Doggie for Doggie!  ;D

[rachelvarga]

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[BigBankA7D]

I measure success on different levels. I cannot lie and say I don't measure it on money but I spend so much time there that I have to have other things to measure or I would just become a cold hard cash girl. I do measure it also on what clients say and when I hear how I changed someone's life, they are much happier, can deal with depression easier, or anything like that I do feel good inside.

I also measure it on how successfully I crush ChicagoBob in online fights. Right now I'm like MMA to his Tai Chi!

I would just like to say that I agree with Rachel my very first trip to see her had an incredible impact on my confidence in life and especially with woman has increased considerably and I will continue to see her until she gets tired of my horny ass or retires ???

[Slednx]

I measure success on different levels. I cannot lie and say I don't measure it on money but I spend so much time there that I have to have other things to measure or I would just become a cold hard cash girl. I do measure it also on what clients say and when I hear how I changed someone's life, they are much happier, can deal with depression easier, or anything like that I do feel good inside.

Great response. Glad to see you haven't been hardened by the industry and still care about the good you do for others.

[rachelvarga]

Great response. Glad to see you haven't been hardened by the industry and still care about the good you do for others.

Thanks. I'm one of those girls that are always on time. Always dress nice. I'm a serious worker. But the work has to be something more than money because if not, you are right, it will harden you. No pun intended.

[Chicagobob]

I found out years ago that if you do what you love, you'll never have to work a day in your life...  8)

[FumbleNutts]

Let's face it, there's times when you just don't click with a certain person and you're going through the motions, and that's alright - doesn't have to mean it's a failure. Success is that you're happy and satisfied afterward with no regrets, and having a repeat party is a sure sign it was a success  ;D

[rachelvarga]

I found out years ago that if you do what you love, you'll never have to work a day in your life...  8)

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[BigBankA7D]

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Its still work you just enjoy it more why have a job that makes you miserable every time you have to get up and go to work I had to deal with that for 5 years until I came to the mustang for the first time and spent a weekend with my good luck charm ? and everything turned around new job more money it’s a win win

[BigBankA7D]

Why have a job that makes you miserable? Because it was a good job for several years then management changes but you have to many years in and the money and benefits is good enough you stick it out.

Well I that point your are stuck and it’s best to stick it out

[Lee]

I measure success on different levels. I cannot lie and say I don't measure it on money but I spend so much time there that I have to have other things to measure or I would just become a cold hard cash girl. I do measure it also on what clients say and when I hear how I changed someone's life, they are much happier, can deal with depression easier, or anything like that I do feel good inside.

I also measure it on how successfully I crush ChicagoBob in online fights. Right now I'm like MMA to his Tai Chi!

Thank You Rachel for being an incredible (adjectives fail) Lady! If I say much more it would need to be posted in the review section and I dont do that unless a Lady asks me to. Our meeting earlier in the summer was overdue and, well, incredible!