Q&A For A Ladies Boyfriend/Husband

[rachelvarga]

Slednx suggested an interview with a husband/girlfriend. I gathered all the questions and a friend of mine had her husband answer them. These are questions that you guys wanted to ask. I have another girl's boyfriend answering these questions so I should be able to post them soon. If you have any other questions please post them at the link below.

https://brothellife.com/everything-brot ... ggestions/

I'm sorry for dropping the ball on this.


Slednx
Q: First question has to be if he has a job or is supported by his lady. #1 stereotype out there.
A: Yes, I can see where people would think that. Probably good that no one knows because then I would be the evil pimp. The truth is no I am not supported by her. I have a very good job and we both work.


RoxyGold
Q: Was wife/girlfriend already working in LPIN when she got together with husband/boyfriend or did they come to the decision together for her to start this new venture?
A: She was not working when we met. It was some years after.

Q: Is husband/boyfriend her biggest supporter, cheerleader, and all-around enthusiast? Or is work just not talked about much? Somewhere in between?
A: I support her in any way. We talk about her work about as much as we talk about mine. I have the general idea of what is going on but it's work and no one wants to talk about work when they leave.

Q: Does the husband/boyfriend feel like he has a better understanding of women because of wife/girlfriend's involvement in LPIN?
A: I have always had an acute understanding of women but I probably did pick up more things since she has worked at the brothel.


SixT9er
Q: Do they discuss her job or is it not talked about?
A: Just in a general sense. Things like you would when you or your wife come home from work. Maybe what's going on. How was the trip? Things like that.

Q: If they talk about it how detailed are the conversations?
A: Lol. I don't want to hear any details.

Q: Does he ever get jealous?
A: No not jealous. I think sometimes you get stressed out about it but if you are not stressed or have anxiety at some point then you probably don't care about her anyway.


Chuckar chaser
Q: How is his sex life?
A: She's a professional working girl. It's pretty good.

Q: How long have you been together?
A: Ten years.


isurfer
Q: Is or has the husband/boyfriend been in the adult sex industry such as porn actor, director, producer, etc. or webcam or prostitute?
A: No I haven't. I think it would be cool to direct a porn movie. Just for the hell of it.


Midwest Couple
Q: Are they swingers in their private life, or has the husband/boyfriend been in the past?
A: No. We don't have time for that. If it came up we might do it but nothing is planned now.

Q: Are the ladies parties something they discuss as part of their erotic play themselves?
A: No, for me that would feel strange. Plus there are tons of other things to role play.

Q: Is it a turn on to know she's out, working with other men/ladies/couples?
A: Yeah it is sometimes. I don't know why but it is.


SixT9er
Q: Does she ever do something new that makes you think "I wonder who taught her that"
A: No I taught her everything she knows. You're welcome.

Q: Does he see other Ladies when his wife is away at the Brothel?
A: If I wanted to she probably would let me but I don't need the headache of a girlfriend.

Q: Does he lurk on message boards?
A: I do read through them and kind of get a feel for different people. I might ask her who someone is, just to get a sense of what I am reading.

Q: Does he have input on what his wife will or will not do with clients?
A: We have agreed on limits.

Q: Does this line of work put any strain on their relationship?
A: Not as much as you think. The strain is more of the away time than what she is doing there.

Q: Does he look at her pms, dms, emails etc?
A: I knew I would get this question. The answer is no. I mean I don't want to see that. I think any guy would have an idea of how things are there. You want it all to be peachy and I rather just keep that in my head.

Q: Has he ever gone to the Ranch to observe his wife at work?
A: God no. I have never even been to a brothel ever. I would be like some newbies write on here. A deer in the headlights standing in front of a row of ladies.

Q: When she comes home is there any awkwardness the first day or so or can you not keep your hands off her?
A: No awkwardness. I miss her and like any couple that is apart for a while. You just want to hit the bed and have some fun.

Q: Why do you think your relationship stays strong with her in this business as it can’t be easy, men by nature are jealous creatures.
A: It isn't always easy but if you try to control a woman she will resent you and you will push her away. If she is going to do something you can't stop her anyways. If your wife is going to cheat she will do it. Guys are the same way. So, there is no reason to be jealous because you can't control it anyway.

Q: Have you ever asked her to stop?
A: Yeah after a while it got tiresome from the travel but we have a time table and there is a finish line. I just like to have an idea of where we are going in life.

Q: Do you wish she did something that didn’t involve having sex with strangers?
A: No not really. If she is happy then she is doing what she likes and I support her making choices that make her happy.

Q: Do you have a say in who she sees? In other words, have you ever told her not to or to stop seeing a client just because you want her not to? Of course, if it’s for her safety and she may be putting herself in harm's way that is entirely different.
A: No, I don't know much about them anyway.


Lee
Q: What makes their love for each other special?
A: Some people you bond with on a very deep level. I have the utmost confidence that we are rock solid.

[Funmonger]

Very interesting group of reactions to questions. Rachel, thanks a lot for posting that.

[Chicagobob]

Nice read... I'm not at all surprised by the answers.  It's very similar to living with a stripper. 

[Adventure Guy]

Thanks Rachel for coordinating and sharing the info.  Also thanks to Slednx for the post suggestion.  Interesting read. 

[Midwest Couple]

Thank you Rachel and to the gentleman who answered the questions. 

That was fun to see the answers, AND it was fun to see who asked what questions. 

[FumbleNutts]

Thank you to all parties who contributed to this! Very nice questions, and interesting responses from the significant other 

[RoxyGold]

Thanks for sharing this, Rachel! And thanks to Significant Other for being interviewed!