Would you see a provider again after a so-so experience?

[Cobia]

It depends on what the off day was like.

Exactly.

[Lucielove_elko]

I have a question for you guys, say that you regularly see a provider and she is always great to party with, but then one day you had a so-so experience, would u see the provider again or how would u handle the situation?

[Ironman]

Yes I  would most likely go back to her. Unless there was some other reason behind the mediocre sex, and the experience continues to decline every time.

But but if I book Girl X say 10 times for example. Let's say for argument the first time is a learning process that is expected.

Then let's say the next 8 continue to get better.  Then 10 is average at best.

But me personally if we can still agree on money. I am going back for number 11 and just consider it a fluke. Yes I am paying for it.

But the girl is still a human. She can't bring her A game every time.

Maybe she wasn't feeling well. But she didn't want to risk lose her regular to another girl.

Maybe she had fight with someone in her personal life, and isn't in.the mood.  But she is camandoing threw it either because she needs the money the party will bring her, or she is afraid of losing the client so she goes through the motions.

Its also possible its on the clients end as much as some of us would love to believe otherwise Sex does not cure everything. It might help most of the time but not every time.

So yes speaking for myself only unless its about the money which she needs too be honest about up front. I am not going to automatically write a girl because we had mediocre in round 10.  I need to see a pattern first of continued decline in quality  before assuming its time to part ways.

Obviously if the first time with her has zero spark or minimal. Probably not going back. Unless I felt there was some other circumstances that makes me think maybe I need to give her a little better look yes that has happened to me.  But something told me? You know it really wasn't that bad. I need to go back to her.

I am glad I did my instinct about her was right about her even though she retired 6 years ago,  and I miss her every day.? That girl (Kristine) eventually become my ATF, a distinction she made sure to take with her into her retirement.

To her credit from that 2nd party on till the end☹ She never went through the motions on the mattress. Even though towards the end we were close enough on a personal level She could have mailed it in once or twice, and I would still gone back to her.  I think she knew that which is why she always tried to keep that part of our arrangement exciting.?

[SixT9er]

If it was a provider I’ve seen on multiple occasions I wouldn’t let one off night stop me from seeing her. Everyone has off nights. If it became common then that would be a signal to move on.
If it were the first party with the Lady unless we just had incredible pre party chemistry and the party was so so I’d probably look elsewhere & plan on not repeating, but not rule out completely. First impressions are very important

[Cobia]

I have a question for you guys, say that you regularly see a provider and she is always great to party with, but then one day you had a so-so experience, would u see the provider again or how would u handle the situation?

That depends on several things.  How bad was the so so thing and what was it all about. I am not going to be around rude people.

[liqq63]

First off, I'd never see a provider a second time who didn't knock my socks off on our initial encounter.  But if she has repeatedly knocked my socks off, followed by an unexpected "so-so experience", I will see her again.  Our history dictates a second chance.  If "so-so" happens again, then it's time to move on.

[Adventure Guy]

If the situation was a regular lady I have partied a few times already then yes, I would see her again if we had a so-so party. 

[SixT9er]

One Lady the First party was good, second not good, third not good. So no more. The not good was the standard set.
Luckily that has only happened once

[Ironman]

One Lady the First party was good, second not good, third not good. So no more. The not good was the standard set.
Luckily that has only happened once

? She sounds like the perfect one night stand only girl.  Anything more even in the paid for world of LPIN no dice.?.

[Duck11]

No.

I once partied exclusively with a lady and had some of the best parties ever for a long period of time. At some point, I paid for an overnight party. The party was great, but I did tell her it took me some time to save up for that party and it was a special occasion for me to celebrate.
After that, I tried partying again at my previous rate, but she wasn’t having any of it and insisted on only doing overnight parties with me. So I tried meeting her in the middle. I was given a terrible party and not allowed the activities that we had done in the past even though I did pay more for the party.  I was constantly told that I couldn’t do this or stop doing that if I wasn’t going to do an overnighter. 
I had my time cut short as well.

When I did return to the house, I talked with other ladies who gave me amazing parties at the same rate that I always offered.

There are so many wonderful ladies at the houses who will give great parties at a reasonable price.  If I’m given a bad party on purpose, I see no need to continue seeing that provider.

[Lucielove_elko]

No.

I once partied exclusively with a lady and had some of the best parties ever for a long period of time. At some point, I paid for an overnight party. The party was great, but I did tell her it took me some time to save up for that party and it was a special occasion for me to celebrate.
After that, I tried partying again at my previous rate, but she wasn’t having any of it and insisted on only doing overnight parties with me. So I tried meeting her in the middle. I was given a terrible party and not allowed the activities that we had done in the past even though I did pay more for the party.  I was constantly told that I couldn’t do this or stop doing that if I wasn’t going to do an overnighter. 
I had my time cut short as well.

When I did return to the house, I talked with other ladies who gave me amazing parties at the same rate that I always offered.

There are so many wonderful ladies at the houses who will give great parties at a reasonable price.  If I’m given a bad party on purpose, I see no need to continue seeing that provider.

Yes that sounds like a really good reason for seeking other ladies who were willing to accommodate u. I agree with your decision for sure there!

[Dr. Who]

I like repeating with ladies that I like, so I think it would depend on what caused the "so-so" experience.  Since we're all human, we all (ladies and us guys) can have an off day, every now and then.  So, I would give her the benefit of the doubt and see her again.  Although if it turns out not to be just an off day and it happened again, then I would move on.  8)

[RoxyGold]

No.

I once partied exclusively with a lady and had some of the best parties ever for a long period of time. At some point, I paid for an overnight party. The party was great, but I did tell her it took me some time to save up for that party and it was a special occasion for me to celebrate.
After that, I tried partying again at my previous rate, but she wasn’t having any of it and insisted on only doing overnight parties with me. So I tried meeting her in the middle. I was given a terrible party and not allowed the activities that we had done in the past even though I did pay more for the party.  I was constantly told that I couldn’t do this or stop doing that if I wasn’t going to do an overnighter. 
I had my time cut short as well.

When I did return to the house, I talked with other ladies who gave me amazing parties at the same rate that I always offered.

There are so many wonderful ladies at the houses who will give great parties at a reasonable price.  If I’m given a bad party on purpose, I see no need to continue seeing that provider.

That’s not so-so... that’s just WRONG. I’m sorry that this happened to you. If someone saved up to do a big party for a special occasion, I would be over the moon happy and make it extra special. Then we would have some great pillow talk when doing our “regular” party

[Vanityaffair]

Everyone has their off days. Sometimes it’s not the girl. It’s the guy. Maybe he did not eat his Wheaties that morning. Maybe energy level on both ends. Maybe chemestry that day. Maybe the viagra did not kick in on time. Maybe the girl is worn out from the night before. Maybe harmonies. Maybe the guy finished quicker than usual or did not finish at all. I say try try try again if the past experiences were good.
XO vanity

[rachelvarga]

It depends on what the off day was like.

[Ironman]

No.

I once partied exclusively with a lady and had some of the best parties ever for a long period of time. At some point, I paid for an overnight party. The party was great, but I did tell her it took me some time to save up for that party and it was a special occasion for me to celebrate.
After that, I tried partying again at my previous rate, but she wasn’t having any of it and insisted on only doing overnight parties with me. So I tried meeting her in the middle. I was given a terrible party and not allowed the activities that we had done in the past even though I did pay more for the party.  I was constantly told that I couldn’t do this or stop doing that if I wasn’t going to do an overnighter. 
I had my time cut short as well.

When I did return to the house, I talked with other ladies who gave me amazing parties at the same rate that I always offered.

There are so many wonderful ladies at the houses who will give great parties at a reasonable price.  If I’m given a bad party on purpose, I see no need to continue seeing that provider.

Yes under those circumstances it was time to move on that was not an off day for her or you

That was her deciding you were now a high roller wale whatever you want to call it.

My interpration of your words correct me if I am  wrong she was your favorite at the time. So you saved up whatever amount because you wanted to celebrate something  special with your favorite LPIN at that moment In time yes?

You explained to her this was just a special occasion you couldn't afford to do overnights all the time.But you wanted to celebrate something special with her.

She either didn't understand what you were saying or chose not to listen to what you were saying.? All she saw was bigger than usual contribution from you, and figured OK this is the new standard between you too.?

Guess I was lucky the one time I went truly Huge  by my standards even back then when I had more funds to draw from.

Anyway the one time I went truly big for what I could with Kristine. I was lucky she pointed out it was a little more than twice what I normally paid even though we tended to go up and down 100 sometimes 200 depending on what I had at the moment. She asked me if I was sure I wanted to give all that to her.

I told her take it I saved up what I could did the best I could because as I told her at the time if she was going to move on when she planned.

I probably wouldn't be able to make it  back before she went away ?? I told her I would try but that night had to be approached as it was good bye?? I am going to miss you. This is for putting up with me because I was kinda of easy to please on the mattress, but  kinda at least with her needed a lot of up.keep in between parties.  Which probably called for more effort on her part to do the in between visit up keep then it did for her to just get naked and have sex with me. Sex in theory once the girl learns to deal with the fact some of her clients ain't going to look great naked. Most will look fugly like me sex with the client is the at least easier part if it is a regular client.

So my goal that night was to say thank you to her for putting up with me  you can't put a price on what an experience is worth not really because we are all indiduals we are not clone

So I went bigger because I wanted her to understand she was important to me and since I thought it was the end.....

As fate would have she delayed her departure just long enough she made herself available to me for one last dance at what in reality was a huge discount when you factor in the amount of time she set aside for one final dance on the mattress with me.

Her way of saying yes you were and are a pain in my ass sometimes you are like  that stubborn weed in my garden no matter how many times I pull you out of the ground or try and kill you with Round up weed killer you always grow back almost immediately. I appreciate and like that you held me in such I regard.?

Anyway back to topic yeah Duck your lady blew.it she lost a client because she did not understand the situation or chose not to.

You could have become that annoying little weed in that girls garden that she could never get rid of.  So over time she would have learned to care and old a small amount of love in her heart for the Duck Weed. But she didn't get it.

See Kristine is long gone by she still holds a soft spot in her heart for that annoying weed that never would go away. So she gave up trying so every once in a while she will chime in to let me know she still cares even if we are no longer able to do what in reality was the easy part.

All she had to do during that was close her eyes and pretend I was her dream lover and I rocked her universe every time.??

[SixT9er]

Exactly.

In your case what weapons were used?!? ???

[Cobia]

In your case what weapons were used?!? ???

Browning A-bolt.  ;D ;D