1 in 8 People Have a Stalker

[rachelvarga]

I read somewhere that 1 in 8 people have a stalked and don't know about it. The number one thing you do wrong is to give in and fear them.


If you stalked someone back that would really mess with them. Send me 2000 texts and I'll send you 3000 dick pics. Sit outside my house and I will sit in the woods watching you and then mailing pictures. Find a scope that can take pics too. Yeah, that would be a really good real story on the big screen.

[Nblaw95]

lol well, I can assure you that I am definitely one of the 7 in 8. I don't know of anybody who's had even a mild interest in me, much less an obsession.

[Underground Farmer]

That's the way I feel, what do you have to do to get somebody to stalk you. Any takers, Rachael, Alexa, Roxy, Drew, Vanity? Let me know if you're interested.

[yuggnikih]

That's the way I feel, what do you have to do to get somebody to stalk you. Any takers, Rachael, Alexa, Roxy, Drew, Vanity? Let me know if you're interested.

That's what I've been wondering--what does it take these days for a guy to get himself a female stalker?

[MrTShirt]

That's what I've been wondering--what does it take these days for a guy to get himself a female stalker?

Not to be desired.
Had an adult female stalker.
She had a mental age of 9 due to a gas stove accident as a child.
Her parents wanted her to stay home taking care of them.
The most she could do was hotel housekeeping.
She was desperate for a "knight in shining armor" to come along and give her a life.
Her trailer house caught fire.  She went back in to rescue her rabbits.  She never came out.
Sad story all around.

[Florida Couple]

Mrs has a stalker when she was in college.  Guy kept following her all over town, she had to hide in a store once.  Mr’s just had some people who won’t take no for an answer... online stalking, even harassing his business page.

[rachelvarga]

The key to dealing with a stalker is showing no fear. I had one and I told him if he shows up at my door it approached me I will kill him. I just refuse to be intimidated...I will not live like that. With this guy, I dug so deep on him that I had a family tree. I'm not lying. I knew where he worked, the license plates on his car. I even had pictures of it for him. I took note of every single person on his Facebook and from that, I pretty much had a family tree. It was super easy after that to find out tons of shit on him and family addresses and phone numbers. I knew more about him than he could ever know about me.

[Drew_Ryan]

I had a stalker during my undergrad, it was nerve-wrecking. So, I got a gun and now I’m okay.


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[AlexaWu]

Had a stalker in high school and a lot of creeps along the way who try to find out everything about you. Thanks to social media it's easy to do that. Even had someone create fake dating profiles using my photos. Scary thing and made me even more private and guarded than before.

Am looking into learning how to use a gun, you never know what type of people you're dealing with.

[rachelvarga]

Guys you heard it. Take her to the range on an outdate.

[AlexaWu]

Mrs has a stalker when she was in college.  Guy kept following her all over town, she had to hide in a store once.  Mr’s just had some people who won’t take no for an answer... online stalking, even harassing his business page.

For some reason men think women should be flattered by their obsessive interest. No means no.

[AlexaWu]

The key to dealing with a stalker is showing no fear. I had one and I told him if he shows up at my door it approached me I will kill him. I just refuse to be intimidated...I will not live like that. With this guy, I dug so deep on him that I had a family tree. I'm not lying. I knew where he worked, the license plates on his car. I even had pictures of it for him. I took note of every single person on his Facebook and from that, I pretty much had a family tree. It was super easy after that to find out tons of shit on him and family addresses and phone numbers. I knew more about him than he could ever know about me.

Rachel, I love how you roll. A truly strong woman who I admire. Asian culture tried to teach women to just take it, breaking the shell now. color]

[rachelvarga]

For some reason men think women should be flattered by their obsessive interest. No means no.

and that women love dick pics. I am amazed at home many guys do this even though it is expressed over and over that we don't like them. It's like the think women are saying no but with a wink. lMost of the time it is to impress us and the other is because they want you to tell them they have a small dick. Never tell them that. It is a thing some guys like you to say and it turns the on or just say, that's a nice dick and ruin it for them.

I also hate pics of guys showing their abs. Seriously? I could care less that you exercise and can do 1000 sit-ups. Over and over it has been shown that women and especially American women don't like the metrosexual look and prefer guys that are rough around the edges. I do.

[rachelvarga]

Here's my theory[/size] on why so many women prefer rough-looking guys or get attracted to bad boy assholes.


1. It's a hardwired evolutionary trait that a rugged kind of guy can protect us.

2. It is also because of the oxycontin hormone that makes people bond or fall in love. After a few weeks that bond is very powerful. Hence the reason why people obsess, stalk, or act like assholes because it hurts so bad.

I think many women want a guy that can protect them but not be an asshole, will defend them but not start fights, and have a little bit of that "fuck it, I'm not worried about it" kind of attitude. Not a lot. Enough to make you feel everything is okay because he has it handled. That is one of the reasons they get caught up with assholes and abusers over and over. Always picking the wrong guy.


Women are much more likely to overlook a guy's looks if they have conversation that shows mutual agreement also. Men are very visual and there is nothing wrong with that because that is the way evolution wired them.

So why do some women prefer the opposite? That's easy. Natural selection has pretty much ceased because we have society, medicine, and the capacity to reason and think. So humanity's gene pool is basically not pure anymore. Humanity as a whole has changed it's evolutionary course causing great variations. Even so, the basic underlying actions are still there.

We are still basically animals.

(How did this get off the path so far? Lol)

[MrTShirt]

...and that women love dick pics...

A picture of the 26 incher is all that is needed.

[MrTShirt]

...I think many women want a guy that can protect them but not be an asshole, will defend them but not start fights, and have a little bit of that "fuck it, I'm not worried about it" kind of attitude...

Carpe diem!

[AlexaWu]

Here's my theory[/size] on why so many women prefer rough-looking guys or get attracted to bad boy assholes.


1. It's a hardwired evolutionary trait that a rugged kind of guy can protect us.

2. It is also because of the oxycontin hormone that makes people bond or fall in love. After a few weeks that bond is very powerful. Hence the reason why people obsess, stalk, or act like assholes because it hurts so bad.

I think many women want a guy that can protect them but not be an asshole, will defend them but not start fights, and have a little bit of that "fuck it, I'm not worried about it" kind of attitude. Not a lot. Enough to make you feel everything is okay because he has it handled. That is one of the reasons they get caught up with assholes and abusers over and over. Always picking the wrong guy.


Women are much more likely to overlook a guy's looks if they have conversation that shows mutual agreement also. Men are very visual and there is nothing wrong with that because that is the way evolution wired them.

So why do some women prefer the opposite? That's easy. Natural selection has pretty much ceased because we have society, medicine, and the capacity to reason and think. So humanity's gene pool is basically not pure anymore. Humanity as a whole has changed it's evolutionary course causing great variations. Even so, the basic underlying actions are still there.

We are still basically animals.

(How did this get off the path so far? Lol)

Well said. A man who will have my back and let me take care of myself because he has confidence in me. If I look over, then he knows I dont want to deal with it and to step in.

[Prospector Bob]

Men like pussy pics so they might assume women would like dick pics. I would never send a dick pic to any Lady; I don't have that kind of ego. But, if asked to send one... I don't know... probably not...

[Underground Farmer]

I would have to send a magnifying glass with it, probably not going to happen.

[Chicagobob]

I've had a couple of women stalk me in the past, including one who collected guns!    All of them ex's!    :