Why Do Men Come To Brothels?

[rachelvarga]

The question came up to me a while back. Why do men go to brothels?

I'm not a man so I can't say for sure but after five years and talking to hundreds of men this is what I gather. You guys should comment and tell me what is right or wrong.

1. It's an escape. They simply want to be in the company of a beautiful woman that makes them feel good. I don't see anything wrong with that.

2. A lot of men married young and never got to try things and don't want to miss out. I always say that when your time comes you want to look back and say you had good times in life and sex is part of that.

3. This goes with number two and one of the more contreversial ones. They are not satisfied at home. It is false that men lose sex drive as they get older. It can last until their 80's. It's a very powerful drive that is a deep part of the male experience. I don't see a problem with visiting us for this reason but I am biased because I provide a service to them.

4. A lot of guys have a hard time talking to a woman. Not sure what to say. Anxiety that can be overwhelming. Many guys tell me they wanted to approach me but thought I would blow them off or that I am out of their league. Look at any brothel. Some of the women are stunning. Much prettier than me. It's intimidating but we are safe and aren't to be a singles bar bitch.

5. Various types of parties. I have a lot of virgin parties and it's for different reasons like #4. Everyone has a level of sex drive and some guys just don't think about it as much. A lot of them are heavy into their careers working 60+ hours a week for years and don't have time.

Couples almost always come because it is safe and we are tested. Women also don't have to worry if the other girl will pursue their or their husband pursue the girl. A nice packaged safe exprience

6. Guys are not always about humping you like a rabbitt. Many are more interested in affection and just want to cuddle and have a friends with benefits type thing.

There are so many reasons. I remind them of someone. A past girlfriend or lover

7. Some guys want a dominating woman. A lot work in situations of control and just want to let someone else be in control. This one is complex and I could write a whole article.

8. Last but not least. They just want to get laid. Nothing wrong with that. Sometimes I'm the same way.

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[Funmonger]

  I go to Just Talk to the pretty Ladies .. I Like the idea that at Most House's They admire My Mind .. I get tired of being Treated like a Piece of meat True I do not have a 26 like Mr. T Does .. But My 4 Inches does just fine for Men  . I also Think that Bob does not Treat the Ladies right  .. He is the Sickest KSf on this board and I do apologize for him and what He says    ;D

Good one Wayne! Makes me remember that I need to lighten up but I'm not sure that can happen until they reopen !

[Chicagobob]

Can you blame them

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[OldNick999]

I’m not sure if I ever mentioned this before (I might have), but I dropped my V-card in a brothel. Yep, my first time was at a brothel.

I live in Utah, and one thing about dating where I live is that women are highly superficial. I got denied dates due to my height, and sometimes my musical preference. I remember chatting with one girl who was taller than me, and she was so hung up on it that she didn’t even want to meet for the fear that she might actually like my personality. It was very hurtful. I’ve been told I’m cute, but it still didn’t make me dateable.

In the case of my ex wife, it was more because I had resources she could drain. I was a guy she could use and do other guys, and this happened for almost 10 years when my marriage got very adversarial. She likes to occasionally remind me that getting divorced was the right decision.

I’ve got a soft spot for the brothels. They’ve been there for me when no one else could bothered. Every time I go, I never have regrets about it. I almost moved to Nevada years ago just to cut down on the driving time.

Often, I’d rather go to a brothel than a bar.

[G]

I think the height thing is fairly common with woman.  I wouldn't call it superficial but more of a natural selection thing. The mustang had some tall women working and every time I was there they were busy booking shorter guys. I am shorter than average and find tall women to be attractive.  Probably because taller women do not give me much attention in real life and I like to break the mold. 

[Lee]

As for me, I like being in the company of Ladies who are willing to have sex with hundreds of other men. Seeing how (usually) docile, kind, and happy a man is when he comes back out to the bar after having sex with a Lady is confirmation that the service they provide is deeply socially beneficial. If I ever have a mate, wife, etc., it is my sincere hope that she is a Courtesan who has repeated sex with most of the Gentlemen here and hundreds more. If that perspective freaks you out, do yourself a favor and dont hold your breath for an apology. 

[Banginit]

The question came up to me a while back. Why do men go to brothels?

I'm not a man so I can't say for sure but after five years and talking to hundreds of men this is what I gather. You guys should comment and tell me what is right or wrong.

1. It's an escape. They simply want to be in the company of a beautiful woman that makes them feel good. I don't see anything wrong with that.

2. A lot of men married young and never got to try things and don't want to miss out. I always say that when your time comes you want to look back and say you had good times in life and sex is part of that.

3. This goes with number two and one of the more contreversial ones. They are not satisfied at home. It is false that men lose sex drive as they get older. It can last until their 80's. It's a very powerful drive that is a deep part of the male experience. I don't see a problem with visiting us for this reason but I am biased because I provide a service to them.

4. A lot of guys have a hard time talking to a woman. Not sure what to say. Anxiety that can be overwhelming. Many guys tell me they wanted to approach me but thought I would blow them off or that I am out of their league. Look at any brothel. Some of the women are stunning. Much prettier than me. It's intimidating but we are safe and aren't to be a singles bar bitch.

5. Various types of parties. I have a lot of virgin parties and it's for different reasons like #4. Everyone has a level of sex drive and some guys just don't think about it as much. A lot of them are heavy into their careers working 60+ hours a week for years and don't have time.

Couples almost always come because it is safe and we are tested. Women also don't have to worry if the other girl will pursue their or their husband pursue the girl. A nice packaged safe exprience

6. Guys are not always about humping you like a rabbitt. Many are more interested in affection and just want to cuddle and have a friends with benefits type thing.

There are so many reasons. I remind them of someone. A past girlfriend or lover

7. Some guys want a dominating woman. A lot work in situations of control and just want to let someone else be in control. This one is complex and I could write a whole article.

8. Last but not least. They just want to get laid. Nothing wrong with that. Sometimes I'm the same way.

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i lost my virginity at mustang when conforty had it.  I always had a heart for them.. she was so kind to me..after that i finish high school, did play music professionally, n got married lived...i guess im back cause u all are beautiful... my heart patters. Mesmerizing... but big jump..

[Prospector Bob]

I just wanted to get laid & have a little female companionship for a while!  ;D 

[firefighter]

A man can date, wine and dine a woman several times but never get lucky. This may be due to the fact that she's not romantically attracted to him, since she may just be looking for a good time.  Dating can be expensive, but a man can spend that money in a brothel since sex with a Courtesan is usually a sure thing. Furthermore, sex with a Courtesan can be fantastic if a connection is made.

Married men may experience a lull in their sex lives after several years since their wives may not be as sexually active.  Therefore, married men may patronize brothels for sex and avoid permanent relationships.

Married men may desire a threesome or fantasy sex but their wives may not be agreeable.  Also, wives may not consent to fellatio or cunnilingus.  However, these activities may be brothel options depending on the client and their selected Courtesan.