How many?

[Lovinlife]

I wonder if you all know how many marriages you have helped to destroy? No i don't blame it all on you but it sure didn't help any. My marriage to Chuckar Chaser is in some hard times tight now. Go ahead and attack me if you need to. I am a strong girl and I can take it. I am willing to discuss any point of view. My husband is a broken person as are many of you mongers and ladies. I am willing to bet. I am not trying to insult anyone. I am only here to wish you all the best and hope that you each live a happy life. Isn't that all any of us can ask? I honestly hope that all your dreams and wishes for this life come true and I am here to tell you that there are good people in this world who care about you and that want only the best for every other human being on this earth. There are people that understand that the broken lady that texted her husband at midnight that she was suicidal is human and was crying out for help. Maybe everyone of you should try and consider the feelings and needs of your fellow human beings and if  a man tells you he has a great wife and shouldn't be there then you should explore and be curious about his needs and feelings and his brokenness rather than worrying about making the next buck.

[SIDEWINDER]

Well, I've already mentioned it on that other board but if I ruined anything, it was probably just several missed opportunities to enjoy so many other things instead of just going to the brothels. I don't see anything wrong with brothels but at the same time,  they can't be a substitute for real life.  Everything has to be in moderation. Of course not being married, I didn't have a wife but many men who go to the brothels do have wives who know where they go and approve of it being much safer then picking someone up in a bar.

BTW: The last few years, I've been making up for lost time and doing so many other things. [/size]

[G]

I don't know anyone related to this matter and I probably should stay out of this.  But my point of view of being an outsider is that no one is perfect and by blaming others for wrongs done to themselves is a way of escaping their own imperfections. 

Maybe this was a blessing in disguise? Time will give you the answers.

[Lovinlife]

absolutely distort the lines between fantasy and reality and that can be very detrimental to some individuals. I am not against the brothel life in general but I hate to see people get so deep into this that they forget reality.

[rachelvarga]

By you I presume you mean all of us or all the ladies because to make it clear I never partied with him and even if I had it wouldn't be my fault or anyone else.



There are no more broken people here than there are out there in the world and it's insulting to use the stereotype that we ladies must be broken to do this job. Well I hate to give you the bad news but I am far from broken and most of the ladies I know are fine. I'm sure that many of the guys are fine too. So we can dispense with this notion of broken girls in the brothels and that customers must have some kind of emotional issue to be here. This is a broken record that plays all the time. We don't need anyone to save us and we don't ask for anyone's pity. That would mean something is wrong and we are happy with our jobs. That emotional propaganda is annoying.

Maybe everyone of you should try and consider the feelings and needs of your fellow human beings and if  a man tells you he has a great wife and shouldn't be there then you should explore and be curious about his needs and feelings and his brokenness rather than worrying about making the next buck.

No, we are not therapists and it is not our job to counsel people on their marital problems. That is for a marriage counselor.

Maybe everyone of you should try and consider the feelings and needs of your fellow human beings and if  a man tells you he has a great wife and shouldn't be there then you should explore and be curious about his needs and feelings and his brokenness rather than worrying about making the next buck.

Chuckar was a super nice guy that was never disrespectful and he did not talk about your marriage or any of that so we don't have any idea what is going on in his private world. He never mentioned you so how would anyone know there was a problem and even if someone did it is not their place to counsel them on their marriage or relationships outside of the brothel. You refer to yourself as a great wife but never acknowledge you are not perfect. No disrespect to Chuckar but you need to realize that as I said before. It takes two to start a marriage and two to destroy it.


I spoke to you in email personally when you asked why men come to brothels and as I told you then and I tell you now. There are many reasons and sometimes there are none. We aren't one of those reasons. We are not here to debate this with you or have a conversation on your marriage. Go to a counselor, a professional that can help you.


I am done with this and yes I will remove your account because you don't belong here. I hope it works out for you two. I really do because he seemed like a really nice person.

[Banginit]

I wonder if you all know how many marriages you have helped to destroy? No i don't blame it all on you but it sure didn't help any. My marriage to Chuckar Chaser is in some hard times tight now. Go ahead and attack me if you need to. I am a strong girl and I can take it. I am willing to discuss any point of view. My husband is a broken person as are many of you mongers and ladies. I am willing to bet. I am not trying to insult anyone. I am only here to wish you all the best and hope that you each live a happy life. Isn't that all any of us can ask? I honestly hope that all your dreams and wishes for this life come true and I am here to tell you that there are good people in this world who care about you and that want only the best for every other human being on this earth. There are people that understand that the broken lady that texted her husband at midnight that she was suicidal is human and was crying out for help. Maybe everyone of you should try and consider the feelings and needs of your fellow human beings and if  a man tells you he has a great wife and shouldn't be there then you should explore and be curious about his needs and feelings and his brokenness rather than worrying about making the next buck.

I sympathize with your situation, but lookin for blame here will not yield what you are looking for. What you seek is probably years of buried issue that reach beyond this arena.  You cant put people in buckets, most of the women in this profession are actually intelligent and incredible ppl.  They work this profession cause they like it not cause they have to or broken. I am sorry for your situation, but the root cause of it you wont find here.

Not to be unsympathetic, just my observation.

[SIDEWINDER]

absolutely distort the lines between fantasy and reality and that can be very detrimental to some individuals. I am not against the brothel life in general but I hate to see people get so deep into this that they forget reality.

Well, I was never one who lost track of reality. I always knew it was sex for money and have stated it many times on brothel boards..  This sounds like something each couple should be working out on their own  as every situation is different.  Being single, If i was hurting anyone, it was just myself.  I made the choice of going to the brothels. No one forced me. I no longer go to the brothels but I don't blame them for things that happened in my life either. 

[Cobia]

I have thought about this thread a lot but I will keep my thoughts on blame to myself.  I do believe it is WAY PAST DUE to forgive and forget.

[Lee]

Perhaps the original question can best be addressed with another question.

Do You know how many marriages have been helped, rescued, and re-energized thru the Brothel's assistance?

(BTW - Brothels for women are needed, and wives should attend regularly)

(to prevent backlash, this is IMHO)

[MrTShirt]

Perhaps the original question can best be addressed with another question.

Do You know how many marriages have been helped, rescued, and re-energized thru the Brothel's assistance?

(BTW - Brothels for women are needed, and wives should attend regularly)

(to prevent backlash, this is IMHO)

I agree.  Time to visit the ProstiDude Ranch and the 26 Incher.

[Florida Couple]

I wonder if you all know how many marriages you have helped to destroy? No i don't blame it all on you but it sure didn't help any. My marriage to Chuckar Chaser is in some hard times tight now. Go ahead and attack me if you need to. I am a strong girl and I can take it. I am willing to discuss any point of view. My husband is a broken person as are many of you mongers and ladies. I am willing to bet. I am not trying to insult anyone. I am only here to wish you all the best and hope that you each live a happy life. Isn't that all any of us can ask? I honestly hope that all your dreams and wishes for this life come true and I am here to tell you that there are good people in this world who care about you and that want only the best for every other human being on this earth. There are people that understand that the broken lady that texted her husband at midnight that she was suicidal is human and was crying out for help. Maybe everyone of you should try and consider the feelings and needs of your fellow human beings and if  a man tells you he has a great wife and shouldn't be there then you should explore and be curious about his needs and feelings and his brokenness rather than worrying about making the next buck.

Sorry, for the struggles your going through.  My wife and I have had struggles from time to time.  She’s my best friend, someone I can confide in, and the only person I completely trust.  I think the central part of your tough times is something I have struggled with in the past.  My wife hates deceit and lies.  She is okay with brothels (business, not a relationship) or porn, or .....  The thing your hubby messed up with and I have before is the deceit, cover-up, and lies. 

My wife and I had a heart to heart and I know our relationship and every relationship can only survive with honesty and trust.  I hope you two can work on that like we have.  I wish you two peace and success. 

[rachelvarga]

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