Party regrets

[SixT9er]

Have you ever regretted having partied with a Lady? Not necessarily because it was a bad party but for other reasons?

[Cobia]

OH YEAH  !

[Chicagobob]

About once per trip!  It's usually when I second guess my instincts to cut & run.  However, during my last trip, she talked a good game, looked the part, but didn't come through for me.  She just didn't know how to fuck.  How can you work in a brothel, be 40 years old, and not know that?  I guess it's true you can't judge a book by its cover.

[raving loon]

Oh yeah had a few of those. I had one where I actually complained to management about getting shorted time, argued for a while, got a make up party with someone else that was just terrible. I actually stayed away from that house for a good five years afterwards.

[Ironman]

?? Yes but it had nothing to do with the girl. In question My instinct was not to even walk in the door that night I should have followed my instincts.


If it had been a few weeks later. It probably would have been fine.


I did one of my little monkey monger stories about what went wrong that night and why. ?


When I crossed paths with that same girl a year later. Although we didn't book lack of funds at at that point a year later. I talked with her made it clear it had nothing to do with her, and if it was meant to be maybe we could give it a Mulligan and try again someday.  Sometimes the timing and all the variables just don't add up.

[SixT9er]

?? Yes but it had nothing to do with the girl. In question My instinct was not to even walk in the door that night I should have followed my instincts.


If it had been a few weeks later. It probably would have been fine.


I did one of my little monkey monger stories about what went wrong that night and why. ?


When I crossed paths with that same girl a year later. Although we didn't book lack of funds at at that point a year later. I talked with her made it clear it had nothing to do with her, and if it was meant to be maybe we could give it a Mulligan and try again someday.  Sometimes the timing and all the variables just don't add up.

I agree, sometimes I’m just in the wrong frame of mind and think a party will take care of it and it doesn’t help or makes it worse

[Ironman]

I agree, sometimes I’m just in the wrong frame of mind and think a party will take care of it and it doesn’t help or makes it worse

Yep I told you exactly what went wrong that night we won't get into that now,but yeah that's exactly it the party was supposed to help and it only made things much worse.


Sometimes your first instinct is the right one.

[firefighter]

I negotiated a one hour GFE with a Courtesan and the party was going well; however, about 50 minutes into the party she stopped and said in a monotone voice, "you only have 10 minutes left so do you want to rebook for another hour?"  That was the romantic mood breaker for me, and I wasn't going to climax for sure after that business transaction in the middle of our party.  The Courtesan obviously wasn't into our lovemaking and making sure my party was good, but was interested in essentially renegotiating our party.

[FumbleNutts]

Yeah, FF I've heard the one about rebooking during the party on occasion  :o I've got to learn to follow my instincts better. One party last year the lady says during negs that she gets a little ticklish down there, so when my head traveled that direction she brought that up again and then gave me a clear no. Wish she'd of just came out and gave a clear answer when the question was posed instead of an answer that wasn't clear. Instincts......

[Dirk Diggler]

Only one truly regretable party for me and it’s my fault for not following my instincts upon meeting the lady and for allowing myself to feel pressured because I placed a deposit beforehand. I haven’t been back to that house since, but I’m not opposed to going back at some point.


On a few occasions I have had twinges of “buyers remorse” after, but that’s often an internal conflict  for me in general, not just related to LPIN. The Irish in me yells “Go for it laddie!” and after the Jewish in me sighs and says “You poor poor smuck.”


Dirk

[Dr. Who]

The only regret that I can think of is not taking Flyfisher's advice when he recommended a lady that I should have partied with at the CR.  Instead, I decided to party with a new lady who gave good "parlor" ...we seemed to click very well while chatting, but it didn't quite carry over to the bedroom.  That party was okay, but I'm sure that I would have had much better time partying with the lady Fly recommended.