Everyone is different

[ashlynsparks]

So I have have been in this world for a little over a month and have not posted anything unless it is related to me but find that I don't see this posted very often if ever, so I thought I would and hope it is okay.
Every lady is different. Even if we work in the same area, same house or for the same person.
Every lady sets their own price. We set our own menus. We decide how we want to negotiate or if we do. Even the new girls fall into these standards.

So in reality you don't know until you talk to us and even if a majority are similar there is usually someone to fit what you need or want but you either have to ask for it or keep talking to girls.

There is no cost to come down and talk to the girls and plan, maybe get contact information to communicate or have a cup of coffee and see what girls are like. There is no cost to email or message a girl to see what she does or does not do.

I know we hold events and promotions that don't cost anything to participate and get to know ladies without pressure. Karaoke, Live stream, online chat, etc.

So it is just a thought but talk to a few more girls in each place before you make choices or generalize. Read about more the the handful you hear about all the time. Talk to a girl you haven't yet or even dare I say it a new girl and then make decisions or opinions.

I know I read a lot out here in the internet world but have not talk to many board members in person or in message so to say "all" or "every" is not fair because the one girl you over look may surprise you or even satisfy you!

Everyone is different and until you know everyone it is hard to say what every one - does, charges, likes, dislikes, knows or similar.

Just my thoughts.   

[FumbleNutts]

Very much appreciate this post, and you're absolutely correct. For many of us that have been doing this for a while, it's finding that diamond(s) in the rough. Some trips, mine are of distance as I'm one state from where you're from, it goes well and some not so well. The expense, discounting the parties, is substantial. That's why for me, its hard to come out of my comfort zone and have fun with many ladies. Sometimes, going through all the motions of finding that diamond knock that drive down in the moment to have fun. I apologize if guys generalize on occasion, but understand it may just be a little frustration.

My frustration right now is that I wanna get out there NOW, but I can't  :'(

[SixT9er]

Ashlyn,


Great post!


Yes we all need to remember that no two Ladies or clients are the same. Everyone is unique and thus has their own wants, needs & desires.


I do think we often times fall into the trap that if Lady X won’t take or do that why bother with Lady Y?


You’ve only been in this work for a month and you know more on the subject than many who have been in it for years!


I look forward to more of your posts!