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........ATTITUDE.....

Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2020 2:06 pm
by Cobia
Do you think ( guys and/or gals ) attitude on here reflects  their attitude in life or at a brothel ?

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Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2020 2:14 pm
by sgtaliin9150
Cobia link wrote:
Do you think ( guys and/or gals ) attitude on here reflects  their attitude in life or at a brothel ?
I think it depends on the person. Alot of people act different online than in person. Just browse reddit for 30 seconds.

I think it might be different here though. People here have met each other face to face. Hard to hide under a guise of anonymity.

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Posted: Sat Apr 11, 2020 2:48 pm
by SixT9er
Cobia link wrote:
Do you think ( guys and/or gals ) attitude on here reflects  their attitude in life or at a brothel ?
You tell me, am I the same?

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Posted: Sun Apr 12, 2020 2:03 am
by Ironman
Cobia link wrote:
Do you think ( guys and/or gals ) attitude on here reflects  their attitude in life or at a brothel ?
In most cases no.  But In a small percentage yes.

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Posted: Sun Apr 12, 2020 10:02 am
by rachelvarga
I have heard people say they are the same online as they are offline. It's not true because communicating through writing as opposed to vocally are different. Textually a person can be seen different ways because it's hard to put emotion into a sentence with vocal cues.

I'm more open here because I am not at work. Nobody is especially here because of the content.

Is that what we are talking about? Did I misunderstand?

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Posted: Mon Apr 13, 2020 12:09 am
by Chicagobob
I think most people are a bit more open online. I'm actually the exception - I'm worse in person!  ;D

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Posted: Mon Apr 13, 2020 3:10 am
by Cobia
There has been several ladies I wanted to party with but after reading some of their post ……..nope.

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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2020 12:47 pm
by AlexaWu
sgtaliin9150 link wrote: I think it depends on the person. Alot of people act different online than in person. Just browse reddit for 30 seconds.

I think it might be different here though. People here have met each other face to face. Hard to hide under a guise of anonymity.
A fellow redditor!

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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2020 12:49 pm
by AlexaWu
People are a little more open behind the monitor. Myself included and I am one of the ladies  :P  
The more you talk to someone, the persons character comes out and makes it a little easier to know if you will click when you meet. Sometimes a bad day can impact someones mood when they are normally really nice. Hopefully everyone you meet is a sweetheart!

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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2020 4:47 pm
by rachelvarga
In some places like Twitter people are vicious because there are no consequences for their action. Non stop spewing hate to everyone in real life you meet will eventually get you a beating.

Social media disrupts the social contract which in a very basic term means you are born into a society and the contract is automatic. The rules are extremely complicated but it can be put like this.

Act within certain boundaries or be removed from the society. You cannot be exiled so either you are shunned or you are removed by going to prison.

Social Media allows you to violate the contract without consequences mostly through anonymity. If everything you said was tied to the real you, it would be very different online and eventually this will happen.

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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2020 5:12 pm
by sgtaliin9150
Rachel Varga link wrote: In some places like Twitter people are vicious because there are no consequences for their action. Non stop spewing hate to everyone in real life you meet will eventually get you a beating.

Social media disrupts the social contract which in a very basic term means you are born into a society and the contract is automatic. The rules are extremely complicated but it can be put like this.

Act within certain boundaries or be removed from the society. You cannot be exiled so either you are shunned or you are removed by going to prison.

Social Media allows you to violate the contract without consequences mostly through anonymity. If everything you said was tied to the real you, it would be very different online and eventually this will happen.
Your insights on different subjects continue to surprise me Rachel. I must have hung around the wrong people when I was younger.

These are the reasons why I don't participate in social media, reddit, or forums generally.

I got to see the "internet of things" start from it's infancy and evolve into what it is today. Was once heavily involved in these thing. Most people, unintentionally, expose who they really are online. A mask of supposed anonymity makes people think they can spew forth all their hate and bias without disrupting that social contract.

When I see crap like that, I think to myself, why would I ever want to physically meet that person.

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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2020 6:25 pm
by rachelvarga
Twitter, Facebook, and others. Are they a threat to liberty?

https://www.forbes.com/sites/haroldfurc ... o-liberty/

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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2020 6:31 pm
by MrTShirt
A number of people have complained their content has been deleted or shadow banned or even had their accounts deleted.

Plus, search engines like Google bury select web sites.

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Posted: Wed Apr 15, 2020 9:26 pm
by Cobia
sgtaliin9150 link wrote: Your insights on different subjects continue to surprise me Rachel. I must have hung around the wrong people when I was younger.

These are the reasons why I don't participate in social media, reddit, or forums generally.

I got to see the "internet of things" start from it's infancy and evolve into what it is today. Was once heavily involved in these thing.













Most people, unintentionally, expose who they really are online. A mask of supposed anonymity makes people think they can spew forth all their hate and bias without disrupting that social contract.

When I see crap like that, I think to myself, why would I ever want to physically meet that person.


Thank you .  You are exactly right.

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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2020 2:44 am
by AlexaWu
There were a lot of reports of online bullying. If anything, cowards will hide behind their monitors.

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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2020 3:59 am
by rachelvarga
AlexaWu link wrote: There were a lot of reports of online bullying. If anything, cowards will hide behind their monitors.
If you say something like you want to kick their ass they will call you a keyboard warrior. I just tell them they are a pussy because they're scared of a girl.

I have used keyboard warrior against a guy saying dumb shit. I'm a girl, I can get away with it. Lol.

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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2020 5:56 am
by SixT9er
AlexaWu link wrote: People are a little more open behind the monitor. Myself included and I am one of the ladies  :P  
The more you talk to someone, the persons character comes out and makes it a little easier to know if you will click when you meet. Sometimes a bad day can impact someones mood when they are normally really nice. Hopefully everyone you meet is a sweetheart!
The best connections with Ladies I made for parties have first been thru pm’s/msg boards

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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2020 8:50 am
by FumbleNutts
Only speaking for myself, yes, I try to be the same attitude-wise to everyone and go out of my way to be nice  :) Whether it would be talking to Jesus Christ or a Homeless man on the street, I'll try to be consistent. However, I've a patch on my favorite coat that says, "Don't Mistake My Kindness for Weakness."  ;)

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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2020 11:41 am
by Nblaw95
I, for one, am pretty different online than I am in person. Believe it or not, I am somehow *more* quiet in real life.

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Posted: Thu Apr 16, 2020 12:32 pm
by Florida Couple
Nblaw95 link wrote: I, for one, am pretty different online than I am in person. Believe it or not, I am somehow *more* quiet in real life.
You’ve opened up on the Sunday chats buddy. Really hoping we meet up some day. You seem like a nice guy.  Talk to you Sunday on discord  :)