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How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Wed Apr 07, 2021 6:34 am
by Slednx
her rates are too high!

I admit it had been too long with the pandemic and all, I went in to check it out a while back and found her. It went well, very well by all standards but I paid way too much. In fact, out of range by other ladies there, by my own rates and what I am saying is....

What is a tactful way of letting her know I was very sastisfied with our first party but not with what I paid?

Re: How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Wed Apr 07, 2021 7:55 am
by JimDiGriz
What I would not do:  Go back and say you think you were overcharged.  The only way this works in the service industry is if a service (or level of service) was promised but not given.  This wasn't the case, so you'll wind up hurting her feelings.  You can't get a refund, so nobody wins here.

What I would do:  Go back as a client and when you get to negotiations give the price you think the service is worth.  Don't bring up that you think you were overcharged.  If she notes that the price is lower than last time, just say this is what you can afford.  She's a professional and can decide if your proposal is acceptable.

Re: How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Wed Apr 07, 2021 8:38 am
by Ironman
Slednx link wrote: her rates are too high!

I admit it had been too long with the pandemic and all, I went in to check it out a while back and found her. It went well, very well by all standards but I paid way too much. In fact, out of range by other ladies there, by my own rates and what I am saying is....

What is a tactful way of letting her know I was very sastisfied with our first party but not with what I paid?
You don't. 9 times out of 10 if the terms are changed its to give her a raise.

That isn't to say it is impossible. I was fortunate my long retired ATF (Kristine) was  still around she always just took whatever I could do at that moment. But it was still always within a certain dollar Range. She also knew if I was light one visit. I would make it up too her.

So I am not saying it is impossible to work a new deal with a lady for less. It is however in my opinion difficult to do so if you set the bar too high with her your first time out with her.

If you are wanting an arrangement with a lady that includes an adjustable rates. You better be smart when you negotiate that initial party.

Any working girl worth a grain of salt will always work with her regular clients to keep a business relationship going. At the same time though a guy can't pay the girl for example 1.200 the first time leave feeling like he paid too much and expect the girl to be very happy or accomdatimg  when you offer only 800 next time you see her with no real established history.

Never go beyond your.means especially the first time with a girl.  It will make it to difficult to go back to her.

I'm going to take it on faith this is like one of your old school 2012 type post hypothetical post like your hey dummy tell them you are local or the panic button type post ?? That you toss out to see if it sticks?? I don't believe you would have made the rookie mistake of going to high with a girl meaning beyond your financial means your first time with a girl.

You have too many seasons on the LPIN Rodeo to make that rookie mistake, and if you did it might be time for you to give up the brothels.

Re: How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Wed Apr 07, 2021 9:37 am
by Chicagobob
Find another lady or maybe another house.

Re: How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Wed Apr 07, 2021 10:02 am
by Cobia
Chicagobob link wrote: Find another lady or maybe another house.





I agree...... find another lady.

Re: How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Wed Apr 07, 2021 10:30 am
by Slednx
Cobia link wrote:




I agree...... find another lady.
Yes, I agree and I think I have. As far as another house, come on guys, as of today there is only one house operating.

Listen, I admit I made a mistake but honestly I was real horny and I thought that this was going to be to the norm. You know like when gas prices go up, you get hit with these "fuel surcharge" on your bills. I thought maybe it was a "pandemic surcharge".  After talking to other ladies, I know this not to be the case now.

Anyways, I am sure we will run into each other in the parlor and was just looking at a nice way to say thanks but no thanks is all.

Re: How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Wed Apr 07, 2021 12:29 pm
by rachelvarga
We are professionals and it will not hurt our feelings if you say the price is too high. Just be tactful and say, "I really enjoyed partying with you but the price is out of my range."


Don't make this complicated.

Re: How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Wed Apr 21, 2021 5:37 pm
by TacoTaster
Don't worry...once she finds out what you've done in the past she wont want to see you anyway...

Re: How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 4:57 am
by Florida Couple
Slednx link wrote: Yes, I agree and I think I have. As far as another house, come on guys, as of today there is only one house operating.

Listen, I admit I made a mistake but honestly I was real horny and I thought that this was going to be to the norm. You know like when gas prices go up, you get hit with these "fuel surcharge" on your bills. I thought maybe it was a "pandemic surcharge".  After talking to other ladies, I know this not to be the case now.

Anyways, I am sure we will run into each other in the parlor and was just looking at a nice way to say thanks but no thanks is all.
Actually 2 houses.  Mustang and Bellas in wells.  Bellas has escorting too. 

Re: How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 5:12 am
by TacoTaster
Betraying confidential conversations....claiming a lady doesn't enjoy sex with 95% of her clients...lying about a girl seeing clients illegally outside the ranch...bragging about how little you pay....yeah you're a real prize...

Re: How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 7:34 am
by Slednx
TacoTaster link wrote: Betraying confidential conversations....claiming a lady doesn't enjoy sex with 95% of her clients...lying about a girl seeing clients illegally outside the ranch...bragging about how little you pay....yeah you're a real prize...
Lol, this is what has this new member on the warpath? 5 year old info that was/is  common knowledge.

Stop acting like the newbie you are and do a little homework...it's all out there.

Re: How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 8:23 am
by Chicagobob
Slednx link wrote: ...it's all out there.
I think that is what he's trying to say.  :o

Re: How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Thu Apr 22, 2021 8:37 pm
by niceguy eddie
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Nevermind, I was trying to make the Little Rascals Spanky "Oh Boy" meme glif work, but I could not make it do so.  Not that it would have added anything meaningful to the discussion.

Re: How to let a lady know you'd like to see her again but....

Posted: Fri Apr 23, 2021 9:57 am
by rachelvarga
TacoTaster link wrote: Betraying confidential conversations....claiming a lady doesn't enjoy sex with 95% of her clients...lying about a girl seeing clients illegally outside the ranch...bragging about how little you pay....yeah you're a real prize...
This is not the place. Keep this personal stuff in pm. This was already addressed a long time ago.


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