The Guides Section

[rachelvarga]

Hey Everyone,

I'm trying to reorganize the guide section, that's why you can't see it. I want to open the topics to comments now that I have a few posted. I'd like to hear some opinions on the following:

I was thinking to have a section for guides that members can make and curate some from the regular posts. That was we have two views, one from a ladies and one from clients. It still needs to fall in the rules and be written in a positive manner.

The problem before is that if I would write something then a lot of comments would conflict with each other or what I was trying to get across. I think it would be better to have two sections.

Any thoughts?

[SixT9er]

I think having the viewpoint from both perspectives is good & needed & both sides can learn from it.
Would you make two topics?
For instance:
Ladies pov on negotiation
Clients pov on negotiation

Or is it better to have one topic that you do & we the clients respond?

You are always going to get conflicting views even if it’s just the ladies topic or clients topic depending on each persons preference

[klutzylover]

My opinion is to split the two sections completely. There are two sides but other members should remember this site is to support women that work in brothels. I think some people forget that.

Rachel you do more for ladies than anyone else and really don't get the credit you deserve. If you need any help with anything let me know!

[rachelvarga]

Okay thanks guys and gals. I'll put it back up soon. I need to curate some posts.

[rachelvarga]

I'll be putting it back up soon. I am thinking of ways to approach it so everyone can be involved and not have it fill up with comments that are not helpful or don't align with the site.

[Daredevil]

I think you should have both customer pov and lady pov (not talking about pov porn). Do you want to keep them both in one subforum?

[rachelvarga]

I will update the section about posting.

If you have a guide or a thread becomes suitable for the guides section I will move it up there.

Anyone can comment on the posts unless it is locked. Please remember to be neutral and anything negative about ladies I will delete it.

[Daredevil]

You're doing a good job with the site Rachel.

[rachelvarga]

Thanks, it's coming together. I have some new stuff written and need to clean it up and post it.

[Funmonger]

I like your idea Rachel and I think it is very timely to increase the involvement on your site. I'm exhausted tonight but if I think of anything later on I'll let you know. One thing that has been good about your site. people on here have been civil. and you have been critical or taken it personal if someone has an opinion. I think people need to feel safe giving their opinion or experience without feeling that they are going to the principal's office. That's never been an issue here. Perhaps more of the "old timers" will come in. I wish I could just get out west again sometime soon. I really enjoyed partying with you!

[Funmonger]

Oops, Rachael, You have NOT been critical or taken it personal. Like I said, I was exhausted when I wrote that. Failed to proofread. Keep up the good work. Wish I could get out to the MR to see you and party, Baby!

[rachelvarga]

Oops, Rachael, You have NOT been critical or taken it personal. Like I said, I was exhausted when I wrote that. Failed to proofread. Keep up the good work. Wish I could get out to the MR to see you and party, Baby!

I knew it was a typo, no worries.

A while back I had some people saying I censor things and asking what's the point of this site. I banned them (they got banned off of SIN too I believe). I'm the admin, I can take criticism but when it's just noise I don't have to put up with it. One person kept posting screenshots of their texts with a lady which were demeaning to another. Seriously? They had to be banned. They are banned on SIN too. If you get banned off both sites then it's not me or Q. No matter how much someone dislikes me or him. He and I are very different in our approach so logic dictates that the problem is the member.

I'm in a unique situation. I work in a brothel, I have friends who are women I work with, I have a lot of clients. I have to balance that with this and I'm not gonna shoot myself in the foot for someone that can't control their impulses.

The Mustang has been very good to me. Jennifer has always treated me with respect. If someone wants to say something about her they are not doing it here. I highly respect her. Tara is awesome and I love her to death. I work with awesome women that work their asses off. All the employees are wonderful. I have clients that are awesome too and I appreciate that they picked me out of hundreds to spend time with.

It's not just one way. If a lady came here slamming someone I will stop it. It's not a grievance board.

I would love to have this board with huge amount of posting but it's a board about prostitution so there's a lot of lurking and I am happy with that. If people lurk and learn about what we do then it's a success.

I am happy to have members like you!