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If you could tell a newb one thing to help them

Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2018 11:19 am
by SixT9er
Only take cash and only take what you’re willing to spend.
If you do this and find you don’t have enough at the very least you need to lower your expectations at the worst case this “Hobby” may not be for you

Re: If you could tell a newb one thing to help them

Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2018 4:00 pm
by Dr. Who
Use common sense and think with your "big head" and not your "little head" ...LOL ...of course, that's not often easy for most newbs when they're faced with a line-up of half naked ladies.  ;D 

Re: If you could tell a newb one thing to help them

Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2018 4:35 pm
by Dirk Diggler
I would say research as much as possible then form your own opinion based on your experiences. Don’t subscribe to group think, and don’t believe for a minute that you can’t have great parties at comparable prices at many different locations and houses.


Dirk

Re: If you could tell a newb one thing to help them

Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2018 6:22 am
by Sonja
Bulldoze through that awkward shyness during the negotiation and tell her your fantasy and what you expect from your time with her. Be specific.  "Just sex" may mean something really different to you than it does to her.  Make sure you are both talking about the same things.

Re: If you could tell a newb one thing to help them

Posted: Sat Feb 17, 2018 6:45 am
by Midwest Couple
Research the board and learn as much as possible. 

When you have a sense of who you vibe with, both ladies and monger opinion, DM them directly.  Both the ladies and the mongers are some of the most approachable people we've met in any industry.  The mongers are especially generous with their time to answer a question, so don't be afraid to reach out. 

The information on the boards is valuable, but the REAL information comes with the courage to ask off the board! 

Re: If you could tell a newb one thing to help them

Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2018 2:16 pm
by Chicagobob
Don't kiss & tell! It's tempting to brag about what a good price you received, but ladies like confidentiality.  Reputation is everything in this world.

Re: If you could tell a newb one thing to help them

Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2018 2:25 pm
by Cobia
Chicagobob link wrote: Don't kiss & tell! It's tempting to brag about what a good price you received, but ladies like confidentiality.  Reputation is everything in this world.





Exactly  !!!!

Re: If you could tell a newb one thing to help them

Posted: Tue Feb 20, 2018 4:29 am
by isurfer
Chicagobob link wrote: Don't kiss & tell! It's tempting to brag about what a good price you received, but ladies like confidentiality.  Reputation is everything in this world.
I agree with CB. Since no one knows who the newb is, if cost is a major factor and the newb just wants a simple party, non-complicated and not a long involved specialty party and is not going to Elko, he should first party with a courtesan who is not considered platinum pussy or very popular and top shelf and try to get the most bang for his buck, even if he contacts the platinum pussy ladies for possible future parties. Maybe party several times with different ladies at a comfortable price level to build up his "reputation" and establish his price range for simple parties that some ladies might price match or come close to, and save the longer parties and outdates for later with someone he has already partied with before and enjoyed, and the sexual "chemistry" was there in the bedroom.

For the budget minded, if you go to a negotiation house, don't ask the courtesan what she charges, sticker shock might turn you off if she starts at a high price since her trained and habitual response to "How much do you charge?" doesn't require much thinking on her part. Instead, tell the courtesan a reasonable amount of what you are willing to spend and what you expect as far as time and activities and get her to think, is that within reason or within her ballpark range and negotiable, or is it not worth the effort? For the guys, do you really "need" a full hour party if that is what you want, or are you willing to negotiate for less time? Lowball tactics might backfire, some ladies feel insulted or disrespected if you give them too low of an initial offer, just like some guys will feel insulted or disrespected by hearing an initial high price from the lady. First impressions can sometimes mean a lot in any personal encounter in any business. Remember, your reputation with the ladies starts when you first meet them or contact them, and your reputation also includes your personality, respectfulness and attitude. Try not to lie to the ladies or tell different stories to different ladies, they sometimes compare notes and have known or worked with other ladies across the state at different brothels, even friends of trusted friends if they want to know something about a client. The ladies and us guys have our own private networks and grapevines to share information that is not public or posted. You might want to tell the courtesans that you have been gathering information on the internet message boards, and even if you are a newb at least she knows you have done some research and might talk to you differently than many of the guests that just walk in off the street with no prior knowledge of how the brothel works or what to expect.

The wealthy don't need to research stuff on the internet. Athletes might gamble a lot in casinos then maybe later go and visit a nearby brothel. Some courtesans are told to start high, you never know who will be willing to pay for the 6 or 7 figure party, I've hear Hof say something like that. My son worked in a store at the Wynn in Las Vegas, and told me that the wealthy didn't want to draw attention to themselves when in public, so they learned to dress down rather than dress up when going out anywhere and he couldn't prejudge people by how they dressed. Some clients routinely spend 5 figures on their visits to LPIN. Don't be offended if you are unknown and the ladies have no clue as to who you are and you get quoted a high price.

Sorry folks, I couldn't come up with just one thing, and I was bored. I don't think I've ever told any newb what I've written here.

Re: If you could tell a newb one thing to help them

Posted: Wed Feb 21, 2018 10:03 am
by Vanityaffair
Do your research on the Laguardia of your choice first then contact them several times and see if you feel a connection before you commit yourself to her first
XO Vanity

Re: If you could tell a newb one thing to help them

Posted: Thu Feb 22, 2018 10:49 am
by CatrinaCosta
Take your time, smile, enjoy yourself, always find the positive.