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What weight if any do you give reviews?


Are there some reviewers you trust more than others?


Do you take bits and pieces from reviews for example if the Lady allows specific activities but don’t pay attention to overall recommendation (I say that because let’s be honest, nobody writes bad reviews of Ladies anymore)


Im at a point where I don’t even read them anymore for various reasons unless it’s a very unique situation which I can’t remember the last time one of those cane up! Lol

There are certain phrases or words used in reviews that can give me insight into the style of party a lady may prefer that help me know they would be someone I might click well with.  For example I am more about the connection and I guess what people would call GFE (whatever that means now a days) so some descriptions of party really share the personality of the courtesan and lead me to believe they may be better/worse suited to what I’m after. 


Ultimately though the best thing is actually meeting a woman and talking to her to find out whether you’re truly compatible because I’m not just into it for a quick wham bam thank you ma’m.  Some brothels like the smaller houses or Mustang are very well suited for that style of interaction and will always be more valuable to me than just a review.


Some reviewers I know from reading their posts are into different kinks or activities than I’m interested in so subconsciously I may not give their reviews as much weight.  To clarify - I’m not kink-shaming, there’s tons of awesome stuff out there and everyone is into something different that’s what makes life interesting. I only mention it because it’s important to acknowledge my subconscious biases and how that affects my perceptions.


Finally a review may help people sift out whether a particular sex worker is actually into/enjoys some of the activities they say they provide in a day where as Rachel puts it many ladies advertise themselves as an expert at everything it can help sort out people who truly enjoy bdsm, gfe, two-girl parties, cosplay, other various kinks, etc

Zylar link wrote: ...To clarify - I’m not kink-shaming...

Ok.... before we answer - Is "Kink-Shaming" something we have to be considerate of?  Because some of you KSF folks are pretty out there, but proudly out there!  Ya - we judge, but in a totally loving way.  Still, If we have to apologize for thinking what some stuff ya'll are into is "unusual" - just let us know and we'll offer another apology! 


As for the OP - yes, we read and give value to them.  We do give more value to some than others as we've either built up more trust in some, have similar interests from the ladies with some, or have just communicated with some more. 

Ultimately though, what the reviews do is provide an interest in reaching out to the ladies themselves and begin connecting with them as a result of the review.  There's a lot of beautiful ladies in LPIN, and we like to value their time and try not to reach out to many ... your reviews help us determine which ones to reach out to and learn more about. 

Chuckar chaser link wrote: i do the reviews to hopefully help a lady I like. I need the lady to stick around if I am going to enjoy more time with her. If she ain't making money she ain't going to stick around. Even if the reviews are not read when a lady has several reviews I think it gets people's attention.

Midwest couple you will never need to apologise for judging me. Just don't have me hung please.

I agree with you on the writing. If she doesn’t have other clients she won’t be there when I want to see her!

SixT9er link wrote: I agree with you on the writing. If she doesn’t have other clients she won’t be there when I want to see her!

[/Helping the ladies who help us. b]

Midwest Couple link wrote:
Ok.... before we answer - Is "Kink-Shaming" something we have to be considerate of?  Because some of you KSF folks are pretty out there, but proudly out there!  Ya - we judge, but in a totally loving way.  Still, If we have to apologize for thinking what some stuff ya'll are into is "unusual" - just let us know and we'll offer another apology! 


As for the OP - yes, we read and give value to them.  We do give more value to some than others as we've either built up more trust in some, have similar interests from the ladies with some, or have just communicated with some more. 

Ultimately though, what the reviews do is provide an interest in reaching out to the ladies themselves and begin connecting with them as a result of the review.  There's a lot of beautiful ladies in LPIN, and we like to value their time and try not to reach out to many ... your reviews help us determine which ones to reach out to and learn more about. 

HaHa MidwestCouple, The reviews were what started me on my journey. I was able to reach out to some of the ladies with at least a small expectation of where I was headed which helped a newbie tremendously. I have been very lucky thus far, but a bad party will not get a review, ever! It has long been said on all boards YMMV. A good or great party for one might be a fair or bad party for another. The vibe between the individuals means everything IMO.
On my first trip, I was led outside of what I thought my sexual comfort zone was. Doing so led to one of the most intense experiences I have ever had and opened up a rabbit hole that I am eagerly exploring.  :o

If I know the Person writing the review .. And We like the same thing then I give the review a closer look ..

Zero! Only thing I pay attention to is if I have at least a rough idea what the reviewer's preferred rate is. If they were able to work something out. I have,at least a rough idea on rather or not her and I might be able to come to an agreement. Other then that though I pay zero attention.

Reviews are only useful, if it contains enough info where I can get an essence of the type of party that the lady provides.  Although, we're all different in our likes/dislikes, so if I know the reviewer has the same taste in ladies that I do, then I'll pay more attention to those.

Overall, I don't put a lot of weight on reviews in choosing ladies to party with.  It's just a small piece of the puzzle. 8)

Nah, reviews don't matter at all.  Everyone knows YMMV.

alot of you have been doing this for a while. so you know what to expect. and what you want. makes sense that reviews dont mean much. unless its a new lady. but for someone starting out the reviews are helpful. there was a lady i was interested in. after hearing some stories it would be better to try other ladies that everyone seems to like. having a limited budget makes it harder shrug off a bad party. not completely dismissing the first lady. but seems better to try universally recommended ladies first.

I think it is a shame when some write-off reviews. It is there to help someone who might be interested in a lady, that's solid in my book.


Sometimes guys just can't write, it is not their strong suite. Have a hard time putting on paper their thoughts. That's fine but don't knock those who have a way with words and can handle the task of writing a review.


I asked several Bunnyboards ladies a few years back, why some guys always say they "don't share intimate details". Point blank, the ladies said that maybe there was nothing to share. Like the sex was over as soon as it began or maybe something embarrassing happened or it just didn't go as they had planned. Of course the guy isn't going to share that stuff but they still write the review as a way of showing others they showed up and participated. Like keeping score but lots of backward k's in the scorecard, if ya' know what I mean.

Slednx link wrote: I asked several Bunnyboards ladies a few years back, why some guys always say they "don't share intimate details". Point blank, the ladies said that maybe there was nothing to share. Like the sex was over as soon as it began or maybe something embarrassing happened or it just didn't go as they had planned. Of course the guy isn't going to share that stuff but they still write the review as a way of showing others they showed up and participated. Like keeping score but lots of backward k's in the scorecard, if ya' know what I mean.

Or maybe the guy doesn’t share intimate details because it’s nobody else’s damn business.
Maybe the guy who shares the details is the guy who’s trying to prove something...

SixT9er link wrote: Or maybe the guy doesn’t share intimate details because it’s nobody else’s damn business.
Maybe the guy who shares the details is the guy who’s trying to prove something...

Well said !

You mean No one tells about their 12 inch Purple headed warrior entering the Ladies Luscious Mound of Womanhood ? 

wayne208 link wrote: You mean No one tells about their 12 inch Purple headed warrior entering the Ladies Luscious Mound of Womanhood ?

I always wondered who wrote those smut novels. Think I just figured it out

SixT9er link wrote: What weight if any do you give reviews?


Are there some reviewers you trust more than others?


Do you take bits and pieces from reviews for example if the Lady allows specific activities but don’t pay attention to overall recommendation (I say that because let’s be honest, nobody writes bad reviews of Ladies anymore)


Im at a point where I don’t even read them anymore for various reasons unless it’s a very unique situation which I can’t remember the last time one of those cane up! Lol

Here is the way I see it. In the first year, you get a lot of reviews because you are new and you are asking them to give one if they feel it was worth writing, then it tapers off. There are a billion already so you can only say things so many ways. I don't really ask very much truthfully. I'm not saying don't give me any, I am just saying I am not as concerned. Plus most of the reviewers are regulars and non-regulars have no idea where to go post them.

When I first started this I was going to do what the other forum is doing. I was going to only let customers post them but then I realized that it's easy to spot fake ones so why spend my time worrying about. The other site will use them to punish guys and girls they don't like. No need to explain why. They have a very solid track record in that department.

Writing bad reviews just makes people think you are an asshole. It may even drive more guys to a girl in defiance. Just don't do a review if it wasn't good. I wouldn't post them anyways.