Pleasure: Yours, hers or both?

[SixT9er]

When you go to the houses and party what are your objectives?


Do you try To give the Lady an orgasm or is it a case of if it happens good for her but you’re the customer paying for the service so it mainly about getting you off?




I’m not going to lie, I’m there for me but part of what I enjoy is pleasing the Lady so I do my best to get her off as it turns me on and helps me to my conclusion.

[Cobia]

Just depends on which lady I am with.

[Midwest Couple]

Our Objective:
- Mr & Mrs have an amazing experience that creates an erotic fire for them to stay warm for weeks/months following the party. 
- The courtesan receives compensation that she is happy with, and feels satisfied to have provided a fantastic service that more couples should take advantage of. 

We've dubbed our style of party a "Me-Some" for the Mrs, as opposed to a "Threesome" which would equally focus on the satisfaction of the MR or the Courtesan.  If the Mr or Courtesan are able to orgasm during the party, GREAT! but they better not try rolling over and going to sleep after they do 

[Bigfoot]

I have three rules for a party...
#1  If the woman's happy, I'm happy.

So I guess that puts me in the both camp

[billwh]

For me the sexual activity is mainly me doing her then her doing me. I like to start foreplay by kissing a beautiful young woman all over her body. Her entire body but especially her breasts and the area between her legs. I like to make a woman cum through oral sex. In fact, that is probably the main objective.

After that's all over, and man, I really enjoyed THAT! Then you can make me cum. Anyway you want to do it. That is just the icing on the cake.

[FumbleNutts]

When you go to the houses and party what are your objectives?
To have a good time with a nice lady or ladies  Of course to fulfill my instincts and a fantasy or two 

Do you try To give the Lady an orgasm or is it a case of if it happens good for her but you’re the customer paying for the service so it mainly about getting you off?
99% of the time I'm gonna cum (that 1% is when the little guy gives out  ), so I just love to give a lady an orgasm. Call it ego, puffy chest, or just makes me happy too, but fun for both is what it's all about during that time 


I’m not going to lie, I’m there for me but part of what I enjoy is pleasing the Lady so I do my best to get her off as it turns me on and helps me to my conclusion.

[wayne208]

I make Sure that The Lady is Happy First .. No Problem for Us Guys most of the time

[TC]

I am pleasantly surprised that so many of you gentlemen require DATY and the woman's pleasure. Where were all of you when I was single? Lol

[Cobia]

I am pleasantly surprised that so many of you gentlemen require DATY and the woman's pleasure. Where were all of you when I was single? Lol

It "sort of" depends on the lady.  Some don't care for it.  " If " they like it I am all in.

[Vanityaffair]

We both have to be pleased. Sometimes I’m more selfish and want more pleasing.
XO Vanity

[AQuietMan]

Probably my favorite thing is the sensation of a woman squirming in pleasure with her thighs gently squeezing my head when I'm doing the DATY thing.  That and the gal riding me cowgirl style, 'cuz I like the view of the boobies and love box as she's moving to her own sexual rhythm. 

So yeah, I'm happy when she's happy.  If she's phoning it in or otherwise not enjoying the party, yeah not a fun experience for me.

Of all of my parties in LPIN, I've only managed one party where the lady squirted profusely when her orgasm hit.  Yeah, there was a wet spot on the bed after that... She ended up having to re-sheet the bed, as the protective sheet wasn't able to soak it all up.  I was so proud of myself that day!  She didn't last in LPIN very long though, so another repeat party wasn't in the cards. I think I did manage a second party with her before she moved on from LPIN though...

For me, there definitely has to be some chemistry with the lady, and a strong attraction of course.  Mutual lust just makes it better.  I tend to get a bit picky about the ladies I've partied with, which is probably one reason why I don't party all that often these days.  Plus I'm not on the top of my game any more, gotta luv getting old!

[Lucielove_elko]

When you go to the houses and party what are your objectives?


Do you try To give the Lady an orgasm or is it a case of if it happens good for her but you’re the customer paying for the service so it mainly about getting you off?




I’m not going to lie, I’m there for me but part of what I enjoy is pleasing the Lady so I do my best to get her off as it turns me on and helps me to my conclusion.

I really like and appreciate guys who are into both