I noticed that recently some guys have expressed interest in losing their virginity in the brothel, so I wanted to help anyone wondering about it with some simple tips to help you feel more comfortable when losing your virginity, Also would love you all to add in if you have a few other ideas about how to make the experience as best as possible.
1. Tell your lady that you are interested in losing your virginity and spend a bit of time talking to different ladies to find out who you feel more comfortable with. I have seen guys who are virgins take all the ladies at the house on an individual tour to decide who they feel the most comfortable with and who they feel they are ready to go with. This doesn't have to be your method, but maybe tour with one or two ladies to see who you think will be the right person for you. You can even tell the bartender that you are a virgin, that way she can tell the ladies so they are prepared when they begin the negotiations for the party with you.
2. Remember that you don't have to lose your virginity the first time you visit the brothel and you can always plan two or even more parties in order to actually get a more full experience. For example, you could come in and just start with a massage and then a blowjob, on your next party, say later in the day or the next day you could request a GFE experience and have kissing and oral sex, with foreplay and then lose your virginity. Or you could do some lapdances and celebrate with champagne and a two or more girl experience for a truly outstanding first time! Remember you don't need experience to enjoy multiple ladies, just lay back and enjoy some fun.
3. Talk about how you want your party to go, and if you want to coach from the lady about sex, and perhaps if you want to try multiple positions or want a more intimate missionary style or woman on top experience. You could even incorporate some elements of roleplay and perhaps ask the lady to pretend it is her first time too and you have just met in the bar, or that she is a school girl or that it is prom night or you have just met an extremely hot waitress and you must give her your virginity. Dont be afraid to have a bit of fun, and it is definitely okay to be nervous too.
4. Try to be pretty sober, although having a glass of wine, beer or a CBD oil drop might help you relax prior to your party. Penises tend not to work as well when you are super drunk.
5. Let the provider explore foreplay with you, like oral sex, if possible you might enjoy doing kissing or even taking a shower or bath together first.
6. Don't get your expectations too high, most people who lose their virginities outside the brothel, really didn't lose them in a "special" way, it just happened and probably wasn't that great, I know my first time was very very lack luster. Don't worry if you aren't great or everything isn't perfect, most people will tell you sex is natural and pretty simple and you'll probably get the hang of it pretty quick, especially if you are with a provider that is good at making loves and being sweet and sensual.
7. Don't worry about trying to make your provider have an orgasm, many women don't always have orgasms and many women have orgasms very easily. Either way, don't let this get into your head, just enjoy yourself and try to make sure that your provider is having an enjoyable time and you are being respectful. Try not to act out your favorite Porno scene, this usually isn't how regular people have sex, just relax and go with it.
add your tips to help others feel more comfortable
I hope this helps.
Vaccinated