Well, my wife and I recently came back from our first LPIN escapade. We learned a lot in a short time frame and we had a lot of fun. We liked it so much, we talk about it every day now . We were talking about going to the LPIN awards but, it may clash with a trip we are going on to Amsterdam and Ireland.
The question is about couples. My wife and I are different than many couples in that she’s not really bisexual. She usually likes a massage and maybe some toy play from him or the lady and some attention from him. Who knows if that changes in the future?
We discovered many ladies are hesitant or avoid couples at times due to not being bisexual or they don’t enjoy DATY. My wife is a total smoke show too
Do the ladies here tend to avoid couples? What is the reason for you? How should we advertise our “different” couples experience which may broaden the pool?
I don't have a problem with couples. I enjoy DATY on me but I don't do it myself. I meet women like your wife that aren't bisexual and are more about soft play. Most women are like that for me. I'm not really sure if many avoid it but I am sure some do just like some avoid virgins (I can't understand why.)
Each type of party. Straight, couples, virgins, two girls, and so on have a different atmosphere and you have to approach them differently. You have to understand the mindset of each one of these. The truth is that some girls can't do that or don't want to bother. If you can't understand different people's needs then you don't stay around long.
As far as what to say. I would say contact them privately. I wouldn't post because then you get a ton of mail from everyone who says they are an expert at everything. I wrote a post on my blog about the "experts". Just say what you like because you definitely don't want someone that isn't into it. Hope this helps.
I’m glad you clarified your type of party. Now girls have an understanding of what you are into. Hopefully more girls will reach out to you. For me the more people the merrier I am.
XO Vanity
Miss Vanity. Courtesan of the year 2019. Can’t wait till they open up again
Rachel Varga link wrote:
I don't have a problem with couples. I enjoy DATY on me but I don't do it myself. I meet women like your wife that aren't bisexual and are more about soft play. Most women are like that for me. I'm not really sure if many avoid it but I am sure some do just like some avoid virgins (I can't understand why.)
Each type of party. Straight, couples, virgins, two girls, and so on have a different atmosphere and you have to approach them differently. You have to understand the mindset of each one of these. The truth is that some girls can't do that or don't want to bother. If you can't understand different people's needs then you don't stay around long.
As far as what to say. I would say contact them privately. I wouldn't post because then you get a ton of mail from everyone who says they are an expert at everything. I wrote a post on my blog about the "experts". Just say what you like because you definitely don't want someone that isn't into it. Hope this helps.
Thanks for the advice Rachel. I was told that some of the ladies kind of avoided us when we first showed up in Elko. After we told the owner what my wife isn’t really bisexual, many of the ladies were open to seeing us. It was kind of weird because some were listed as seeing couples. I do wish they had ways to reach out or communicate with the ladies like they do at the larger brothels. I can understand costs / scale concerns. We were also surprised that the Elko side of Nevada... many of the ladies don’t even have any kind of social media.
Next trip may be to Reno I really appreciate your advice and you setting up this forum. Thank you.
Vanityaffair link wrote:
I’m glad you clarified your type of party. Now girls have an understanding of what you are into. Hopefully more girls will reach out to you. For me the more people the merrier I am.
XO Vanity
Titans link wrote:
I had a question about this topic for the ladies also. Now in a situation like this where the husband is totally into wanting to do the LPIN thing and the wife seems more hesitant-is that a turnoff to the courtesans? It just seems like maybe it could be an issue as if the husband was forcing his woman into a 3some that she really doesn't want to engage in. We all know Mr. Phoenix is a really nice guy (sure his wife is too), so totally know that Mr. Phoenix isn't forcing his wife into anything in their case. Just was wondering after Phoenix had posted about his experiences at the brothels that maybe the courtesans who didn't know Phoenix couple from the message boards (and that he wasn't forcing her into a brothel or anything like that) maybe were thinking that and that was why some were giving them the cold shoulder.
I have seen this happen from both sides of the couple. The Mr. is really into it and Mrs. is like hey wait, you wanna do WHAT? I thought we were just coming here for drinks and to play pool. On the other side, the Mrs. was all for it and Mr. was all hey b*$ch, this is cutting into my beer money, no way.
Everyone is different. Everyone’s interests and desires are different. To treat people the same is just silly.
RoxyGold link wrote:
I have seen this happen from both sides of the couple. The Mr. is really into it and Mrs. is like hey wait, you wanna do WHAT? I thought we were just coming here for drinks and to play pool. On the other side, the Mrs. was all for it and Mr. was all hey b*$ch, this is cutting into my beer money, no way.
Everyone is different. Everyone’s interests and desires are different. To treat people the same is just silly.
Roxy is right. They are all different. That's why girls like her and I will quickly sum up the situation and know where to take.
Rachel Varga link wrote:
Roxy is right. They are all different. That's why girls like her and I will quickly sum up the situation and know where to take.
Interpretation: Roxy and Rachel know when to kick a guy in the butt. (Just speaking for a friend.)
Titans link wrote:
I had a question about this topic for the ladies also. Now in a situation like this where the husband is totally into wanting to do the LPIN thing and the wife seems more hesitant-is that a turnoff to the courtesans? It just seems like maybe it could be an issue as if the husband was forcing his woman into a 3some that she really doesn't want to engage in. We all know Mr. Phoenix is a really nice guy (sure his wife is really nice too), so totally know that Mr. Phoenix isn't forcing his wife into anything in their case. Just was wondering after Phoenix had posted about his experiences at the brothels that maybe the courtesans who didn't know Phoenix couple from the message boards (and that he wasn't forcing her into a brothel or anything like that) maybe were thinking that and that was why some were giving them the cold shoulder.
Could be true. We didn’t make appointments and it was Mrs idea to go. One person in the brothel told me many of the girls are a little standoffish with couples. They also told me some girls that advertise couples aren’t really into girls? I guess appointments is the way to go?
. We were talking about going to the LPIN awards but, it may clash with a trip we are going on to Amsterdam and Ireland. 
I really appreciate your advice and you setting up this forum. Thank you.