Here are some thoughts on wishlists.
- Two pages max because no one wants to go through thirty pages of panties and perfume. I see it all the time and I just shake my head.
- Add things you really need, not panties, perfume, and diamond bracelets. I used to have just one really high dollar item in case I got lucky. Then I figured out that an iPad was a third of the cost and ten times better so I took that off. I'm going to put something ridiculous on there.
- At least one gift card because sometimes people want you to get whatever you want.
- Put realistic items that are not expensive because I'm sorry, most people can't afford to buy you a $3000 bracelet. It's okay to have but put again be realistic.
The only thing I would say to guys is this. If a girl doesn't have panties or sexy clothes don't ask them to add that. If they wanted it then it would be already there. I got enough of that stuff already and it isn't really remembered because it just goes in a pile of stuff we have a ton of. Which is why it baffles me that girls have that kind of stuff.
Questioning something is really rude. I had a guy ask me why I wanted a Nerf gun. To shoot your stupid ass. I am more fortunate than people back home so I send them stuff. Oh another one was why would I want a Gamestop card. Girls don't play games? Actually my niece wanted to give her boyfriend a birthday gift so I bought the digital code and gave it to her so she could get him something. Those are things that I don't forget someone buying for me.
So if you can, maybe check your ATF's wishlist and see if she has something not expensive. Just an idea.