BDSM in LPIN

[rachelvarga]

There is not a lot of talk about BDSM in LPIN. There are not many customers looking for this. The reason being is that BDSM is a subculture that exists in it's own world just like LPIN. It has it's own places that you can go to if you want to have a session. No one thinks of going to a brothel for BDSM.


There is an upside in this post. Many people have fetishes they can fulfill with the right courtesan. Then if they want to jump into BDSM they have a little experience.


Also a fetish is not automatically BDSM. There are fetishes for everything imaginable. With the right Courtesan you can explore a fetish you have or are curious about.


If you have questions about a certain fetish you can post them or pm one of us.

[SixT9er]

Saw the Mustang “Dungeon” a few months back. Looks like it would be great for anyone with an interest in BDSM.


I’m a big wuss so I couldn’t be on the receiving end of things but if a Lady was into it I’d be interested in trying out my dominant tendencies.


I remember the kink test and Dominant was the highest after voyeur. I guess that’s something in me that I keep repressed as I like my intimate encounters to usually be pretty equal but am always willing to learn and please a Lady!

[rachelvarga]

This subject never does well.

[MrTShirt]

For some of us with Arthritis, our hands, knees, etc. are always in a BDSM mode 24/7.  So, BDSM in a party isn't of interest.

[rachelvarga]

While that is a concern,  I don't believe it is the reason it isn't really part of LPIN.

[SixT9er]

I’d guess a major reason it isn’t Big in LPIN is because there has to be a lot of trust involved. There’s not too many people I would trust letting them tie me up and blindfold me for instance.


Also I think there’s a lot of misunderstanding regarding what bdsm is, what it includes and how to approach it if you’re interested.


Then as you stated in the opening of the post people who are into it already have a place to partake in it thus LPIN isn’t needed but I’d think for those curious that the right Lady in LPIN could open the door for some people. Just finding that Lady for what you’re looking for is the challenge

[MrTShirt]

For some of us with Arthritis, our hands, knees, etc. are always in a BDSM mode 24/7.  So, BDSM in a party isn't of interest.

While that is a concern,  I don't believe it is the reason it isn't really part of LPIN.

I've got it.

I will redefine BDSM as the lady sitting on my lap.  Then we do a lot of kissing, cuddling, and hands everywhere.  Now I am in.     

[Sable Renae]

My 2 cents.... As an active member in the BDSM community in 3 states I find it very interesting that this subject actually doesn't have a big following. Finding folks to play with in the Carson/Reno area is actually harder than one would think. The community is very closed off around here for some reason. If someone wanted to learn I am more than happy to teach but as stated above there is a HUGE amount of Misunderstanding of the BDSM culture primarily that there must be pain involved. I can attest that it doesn't but then again folks don't really know till they talk to someone who can explain and sometimes show.