Why Do Men Come To Brothels?

[rachelvarga]

The question came up to me a while back. Why do men go to brothels?

I'm not a man so I can't say for sure but after five years and talking to hundreds of men this is what I gather. You guys should comment and tell me what is right or wrong.

1. It's an escape. They simply want to be in the company of a beautiful woman that makes them feel good. I don't see anything wrong with that.

2. A lot of men married young and never got to try things and don't want to miss out. I always say that when your time comes you want to look back and say you had good times in life and sex is part of that.

3. This goes with number two and one of the more contreversial ones. They are not satisfied at home. It is false that men lose sex drive as they get older. It can last until their 80's. It's a very powerful drive that is a deep part of the male experience. I don't see a problem with visiting us for this reason but I am biased because I provide a service to them.

4. A lot of guys have a hard time talking to a woman. Not sure what to say. Anxiety that can be overwhelming. Many guys tell me they wanted to approach me but thought I would blow them off or that I am out of their league. Look at any brothel. Some of the women are stunning. Much prettier than me. It's intimidating but we are safe and aren't to be a singles bar bitch.

5. Various types of parties. I have a lot of virgin parties and it's for different reasons like #4. Everyone has a level of sex drive and some guys just don't think about it as much. A lot of them are heavy into their careers working 60+ hours a week for years and don't have time.

Couples almost always come because it is safe and we are tested. Women also don't have to worry if the other girl will pursue their or their husband pursue the girl. A nice packaged safe exprience

6. Guys are not always about humping you like a rabbitt. Many are more interested in affection and just want to cuddle and have a friends with benefits type thing.

There are so many reasons. I remind them of someone. A past girlfriend or lover

7. Some guys want a dominating woman. A lot work in situations of control and just want to let someone else be in control. This one is complex and I could write a whole article.

8. Last but not least. They just want to get laid. Nothing wrong with that. Sometimes I'm the same way.

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[Funmonger]

I believe that you make a good point, Rachel, that different guys go to Brothels for often different reasons. It reminds me of a conversation I had at one of the annual events when a younger guy said to me, "If I was married, I would never go to a brothel." When he also said that he is not married, I said "Tell me that when you are married and fifty or sixty and haven't been laid at home in several years.

There are medical professionals who recommend seeing a professional courtesan as an alternative to the usual options that follow "no sex in marriage". It is inevitable for someone who is sex starved in their marriage to feel a variety of negative emotions so one naturally gravitates toward some kind of a solution. Many people want to stay married whether or not sex is still included. So LPIN can be a good option for some. In this manner, LPIN can save a marriage. Many men who have been married for decades, have no intention of having an affair or getting a divorce or changing everything in their life.

LPIN fulfills a basic need. It is also natural for a man to want to please a woman while she is pleasing him.The client gets to experience something really special without the usual relationship commitments and definitely without the risks associated with other alternatives aside from seeing a licensed professional. There are also opportunities to make friends with the ladies, while still maintaining the distance of a commercial relationship. This benefits both the LPIN and her client. The idea of "what stays in Vegas..." well, you know the deal. Except its not in Vegas!

[liqq63]

Well said Rachel.  Your #3 brought me to a Nevada brothel for my first hobby experience nearly 17 years ago.  Those first several brothel experiences cured me of your #4, and as time went on, your #'s 1 and 8 became the drivers for continuing the hobby lifestyle, sans all the disappointment and heartache of the traditional relationships I had experienced.  Just yesterday, one of my gal pals told me that she could tell that the lines on my face were from happiness and smiling, rather than from stress and anguish.  The gals of LPIN got me started on this happy journey, and I say thank you, thank you, thank you...

[Uncle_Duke]

8.5, I just wanted to get laid by as many different women as possible in my lifetime. I have done a fair job of it too. Many different body types, skin tones, national origin,hair color (redheads #1) tall, short, super skinny and those who were not.  Found some incredible sexual experiences in unexpected places with women some other guys would pass on. I have my list and know how many there have been so far.
I am not done yet! I may be in the fourth quarter but the game is still being played

[rachelvarga]

I'm glad to hear these things. I can only try to understand being that I'm a woman. Men are often seen as simple and women as complex but to me it seems that it's about equal.

What got me thinking is these articles written by one guy for tons of girls about therapeutic reasons and they come off as really pseudo-psychology. When you start in this industry you sort of buy into some of it. Five years have passed and I have other things going. I'm about to rip down my site and re-write all the articles from my more experienced perspective. Operation Clean House is under way. Out with the old and in with the new. Including people that play games and take advantage of my generosity.  Time is running out for them.

Listen, I know a lot of Sinners and Mongers can't stand me because from day one I challenged the old west whorehouse perspective. They took their best shot but it failed.  Even though they tried my business flourished. My onlyfans continues to grow and let me tell you exactly why from the mouths of clients, friends,  and fans.

I don't take all those guys shit and I try to be myself as much as possible.

Guys that support my side are not simps. The real simps are guys that go after simps which makes the simps of their friends. Lol. Man simps.

The secret to always having good parties. Never party with someone you don't like or feel deserves your attention. That way you don't have to fake it.

ChicagoBob is in a category all his own. He likes to agitate me and I like to give him shit but it's friendly.

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[Funmonger]

I'd like to add that going to a brothel makes more sense to me than the commitment of an "arrangement" of a "Sugar Daddy" type set up.  Again, that would represent a commitment of both time and money and it is outside of my own budget and comfort zone.  The "pay as you go" of LPIN is simple, periodic and affordable. Again, this is a personal thing so different strokes and all that.

[Cobia]

I like # 1, 3 and 6.

[Florida Couple]

The couple part is 100% accurate for us.  The Mrs is open to the threesome with conditions.  She didn’t want any possibility of a relationship or attachment beyond the party itself.  The Mr is, of course, fine with that. We’re deeply in love and don’t want to damage our relationship at all. 

[Chicagobob]

I have no choice...  civilian girls won't have me.  :

[ShyKyle87]

If I ever get a chance to visit, it would be a combination of 1, 4, and 8 for me.

[yuggnikih]

I have no choice--civilian women won't accept me either.
When I realized that I couldn't be accepted on Tinder or Match.com,
I knew it was time to return to the brothels permanently.

[Lomez]

9. Meet someone you could never meet in the course of day to day life. Doesn't have to be a knockout, maybe someone silly or smart or interesting or sassy that one would never meet otherwise.

[G]

10. Curiosity, I wanted to check out the brothel and see what the whole experience was about. After about my second experience it turned into #6.

[sgtaliin9150]

I feel some of the listed reasons are far too complex to go into without doing a 10 page essay. Others are simple. Depends on the person.

[whackymole]

8.5, I just wanted to get laid by as many different women as possible in my lifetime. I have done a fair job of it too. Many different body types, skin tones, national origin,hair color (redheads #1) tall, short, super skinny and those who were not.  Found some incredible sexual experiences in unexpected places with women some other guys would pass on. I have my list and know how many there have been so far.
I am not done yet! I may be in the fourth quarter but the game is still being played

I have no choice...  civilian girls won't have me.  :

These 2 should be added to the 10 already listed. I'll list 2 more.

13. Brothels provide a safe place for clients.  In person you know what you're going to get. Meeting people online can be daunting, you don't necessarily know what you're getting into. You could be ripped off, or worse. There is VD testing, and you don't have to fear hurtful rejections.

14. You can be more adventurous. The girls have heard a lot of it before, and a lot of them are open minded. You're less embarrassed bringing up fetishes, kinks, and fantasies, and making requests that you'd otherwise be too afraid to bring up on a date, or even in a relationship.

[Chicagobob]

ChicagoBob is in a category all his own. He likes to agitate me and I like to give him shit but it's friendly.

Rachel Varga

We're just two peas in a pod, aren't we? 

[rachelvarga]

I have no choice...  civilian girls won't have me.  :

Can you blame them

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[wayne208]

  I go to Just Talk to the pretty Ladies .. I Like the idea that at Most House's They admire My Mind .. I get tired of being Treated like a Piece of meat True I do not have a 26 like Mr. T Does .. But My 4 Inches does just fine for Men  . I also Think that Bob does not Treat the Ladies right  .. He is the Sickest KSf on this board and I do apologize for him and what He says    ;D