How important is preparty contact to you?

[SixT9er]

I know a lot of guys can go in, see a girl, pick her from a line up or talk for 5 min and head back and have a great party.
Unfortunately that's not me...


I've found by a large margin that if I make a connection via pm/email first with a Lady I'm interested in I have a much better experience as opposed to meeting the Lady for the first time in the parlor even if we spend 45min- hr visiting first. Because of this it's no surprise that the greatest number of great parties have come from Ladies I first encounter on the message board.


Preparty contact odds of a good to great party 95%
Just parlor contact odds of a good to great party 30%


What's everyone else's take on Preparty contact vs just parlor contact?

[Cobia]

As I got older it is a MUST.

[Dirk Diggler]

I've had great parties with and without pre-party contact and I honestly haven't found anything to differentiate between the two for me personally. It's all about the vibe once we meet in person and if I felt a good vibe I've always enjoyed the party after and hopefully the lady did too lol.


Dirk

[FumbleNutts]

Very! Think I've had a couple parties where I didn't have contact prior, and they both turned out good luckily. For the comfort level though, I'd like to have prior contact.

[Dr. Who]

I don't have too much pre-party contact with the ladies, other than whatever mingling that we might do on these boards or I may PM a lady, if I have a specific question or need to find out her schedule when I'm planning a trip.  I'd rather meet and chat with the ladies in person to see if we both "click".  That's been working out pretty good for me over the years.  8)