Troubling Trend?

[SixT9er]

Before I get to my comment I will state these two things:


1. A Lady has a right to ask whatever she chooses and a Client has the right to accept or walk


2, If a Lady has to purchase special Items for a clients special request then the client should pay for the extra and not expect the Lady to just cover it.


Now the troubling trend I've noticed that I noticed starting a year or so ago is some Ladies expecting the client to pay for every minute she spends interacting with the client as in pm's, twitter, emails, parlor time. Some go farther citing getting prepped (shower, hair, makeup etc) for the party as things they should be reimbursed for. I see this very prevalent with Ladies selling "Real GFE" parties.


Most Ladies and the Ladies I respect most view these things as part of the job. Personal correspondence & Parlor time are all part of marketing. Yes this is figured into the party cost but not at an exorbitant fee. The party prep is just part of the job. What the Lady isn't going to do those things anyway?


Yes some clients are time takers but the Lady controls how much time she will give any given client so if she has a guy emailing 50X a day she controls how many times she responds. If she responds to all then its on her for perpetuating the problem.


These "Real GFE" things are out of hand. If the Lady is going to charge for all her correspondence time she should tell the guy up front but what so often happens is this Needy guy corresponds constantly, gets hooked on the Lady then when he shows up for the party gets quoted a price he can't afford. He being usually of low self esteem, not knowing better and being smitten with the Lady will often times go ahead and pay the price and regret it later. Some may see no problem with this scenario as the Lady got paid. I see it as a path to the end of lpin. As more and more Ladies take this approach and ignore the majority of clients who are working class and not looking for that "Real GFE" experience potential clients will look elsewhere for their entertainment. There are only so many needy guys with enough nerve to even look into lpin so the supply will never keep up with the number of Ladies selling it. Yes then the Ladies could back off but I fear by the time that happens it will be too late.


Maybe I'm crazy and lpin will live forever and Ladies will find an unlimited supply of guys looking to spend for correspondence and the high dollar party that goes with it.


I'm thankful to the Ladies who understand my situation and provide the incredible parties they do. I used to consider my parties "GFE" but now I think of the as GFE in bed time nothing more. A few Ladies go further and keep in contact & spend time in the Parlor and thus are giving me the "Real GFE" but not charging for it because just maybe they like me and they like their job and understand that its great business to do so. These Ladies are the cream of the crop and will always get my recommendation.


Just my observation and I hope the trend doesn't continue as I see my lpin days numbered as it is and accelerated if the trend continues

[rachelvarga]

Guys you are reading to deep into this.

[Mikey]

Some guys are really into it, and correspond regularly. I'm married and on rare occasion have texted a lady, and deleted it from my phone immediately. I only have the numbers of 2 ladies and that has more to do with the banquet than setting up a date, though one is my current ATF.