Correspondence

[SixT9er]

When I contact a Lady I expect to hear back from the Lady not an assistant or worse a significant other!
For the longest time I couldn't imagine that a Lady wouldn't be replying to her own emails etc. Over time it has come to my attention that some Ladies have others reply for them. This seems to me to be a major breach of trust and very disrespectful.
If I ever found out a Lady was doing this I would never contact her again and would tell others.
What are your thoughts? Is it OK for this to be going on?
I'd still be angry even if the response said "This is  Maryanne's assistant, she asked that I reply for her" as this is still a major breach of trust. Whatever I sent to "Maryanne" was meant for her eyes only

[SexyLexieJames]

I can see both sides of this... some ladies get so busy actually having sex for money, that's the goal or course, that they need marketing done still but just don't have the time. I would love to get to that level of busy, but would still do my best to answer personal messages on my own.
On the flip side however, I have seen clients who are stage 5 clingers who expect daily conversation to build up to a party come in and party with girls who have assistants. The assistants have the time to communicate endlessly with everyone who reaches out, whereas a lady doing all her own marketing cannot hold onto leads that need daily attention. These guys don't realize that the only lady who was willing to give them that time, didn't actually give them any. I don't mean to say the party is unearned, because the lady worked hard to get to that point where she needs an assistant, but boy is it frustrating!

[SixT9er]

I can see both sides of this... some ladies get so busy actually having sex for money, that's the goal or course, that they need marketing done still but just don't have the time. I would love to get to that level of busy, but would still do my best to answer personal messages on my own.
On the flip side however, I have seen clients who are stage 5 clingers who expect daily conversation to build up to a party come in and party with girls who have assistants. The assistants have the time to communicate endlessly with everyone who reaches out, whereas a lady doing all her own marketing cannot hold onto leads that need daily attention. These guys don't realize that the only lady who was willing to give them that time, didn't actually give them any. I don't mean to say the party is unearned, because the lady worked hard to get to that point where she needs an assistant, but boy is it frustrating!

I think assistants for everything else makes sense if you are that busy. Personal correspondence should remain just that and private.
In the case of the needy client the Lady has to weigh the time spent vs the party to be booked. If you need to spend an inordinate amount of time on a guy who is only booking a $500 party then he's not worth it. Now if he's booking a multi thousand dollar party then he may be. This is where the Lady has to roll the dice if she's unwilling to discuss pricing up front. Sometimes you'll make the right decision other times you won't but either way it should be the Lady doing the communicating imo

[rachelvarga]

You probably would never know if they did. The best thing to do if you have an assistant is to let them take care of other things because there can be a lot of stuff to do. This gives the Courtesan time to correspond with incoming emails.