How Often Should You Write to a Lady?

[rachelvarga]

I wanted to hear some opinions on this.


My general rule is contact once and if there is no answer then wait up to two days and try again. If a week passed you should seek out a different lady.


Too strict? Not strict enough?

[Cobia]

I wanted to hear some opinions on this.


My general rule is contact once and if there is no answer then wait up to two days and try again. If a week passed you should seek out a different lady.


Too strict? Not strict enough?

That "sort of depends" on several things. If you are in contact regularly and know the lady there is not much hurry as she may be home or busy. 

A new lady......if she doesn't reply in a couple days move on.

[SixT9er]

I wanted to hear some opinions on this.


My general rule is contact once and if there is no answer then wait up to two days and try again. If a week passed you should seek out a different lady.


Too strict? Not strict enough?

Not too strict but there are some exceptions. If you’re in need of an urgent reply for example because you plans changed.


If it’s casual conversation then don’t expect an immediate reply

[Cobia]

I wanted to hear some opinions on this.


My general rule is contact once and if there is no answer then wait up to two days and try again. If a week passed you should seek out a different lady.


Too strict? Not strict enough?

Not too strict but there are some exceptions. If you’re in need of an urgent reply for example because you plans changed.


If it’s casual conversation then don’t expect an immediate reply

Good point.

[Dirk Diggler]

This is a topic I would love to hear more feedback on regarding casual communication. I've never been able to get a good sense of what the norm is so I typically haven't engaged in casual conversation via pm/emails much because I didn't want to be "that" guy and be disrespectful of the lady's time.


Dirk