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SixT9er link wrote: I fortunately haven’t been the recipient of the mid party upsell. Of course in the initial negotiations and that’s fine but mid party?!?


I’ve heard stories of guys getting upsold in the middle of the party, talk about a mood killer!


Anyone experience this tactic? I don’t think it’s common but it does happen


Actually I have now my brain kicks in! The worst part was She offered something she shouldn’t have. I politely declined but it did change the mood of the party. After I declined she seemed a lot less interested

KittiMinx link wrote: I genuinely cannot understand how people can do that. If your mind is so stuck on business that you're trying to sell during the party then you're not actually enjoying yourself and partying. If I'm having sex, I'm having sex. I'm enjoying myself and the only time my mind wanders is if I'm hungry. My dream party is someone feed me while we're having sex. People ought to live in the moment a little more.


I don't start upselling after the initial negotiation until time is called. Then I ask if they'd like to keep going or not. I try not to let time cut before a pop, but sometime's one's own body doesn't cooperate and 30mins-1hr turns out to not be enough.  I've heard some style their parties and cut it so the client gets close to popping but then time is called so they try to make them rebook to get the pop. To me that's  :-\  if someone needs 5 minutes of less I just let them. Unless it's negotiated as part of the party as a fetish my job is to provide pleasure not deny it!


Only when the party is already going and the client suggests things that weren't brought up at all in negotiation have I suggested pausing and renegotiating. But that's if they bring up anal, wanting to do some BDSM play, those sorts of things. So long as in the negotiation the client wanted pussy, mouth, or hands - it's golden. If you agree to a handjob it's a handjob. If you agree to full sex then it's every hole except the butt. It's why I like straight shooters in negotiations, not Vague Vinnys.


Next time someone tries to upsell you mid-party say "give me a minute and I can make my dick grow three inches longer and an inch thicker".

Dr. Who link wrote: I've had the upsell during a party at the CR, but that happened years ago.  She was also new to LPIN and worked at strip clubs prior to trying out the brothels.  Anywho, the lady gave off very good vibes while we chatted in the bar, so I took a chance and partied with her.  She actually gave a good party despite the upsell, but it's not something that should have occurred once you've sealed the deal during negotiations.

Looking back, I think her background working in strip clubs carried over to her work at the brothel, since that sorta stuff happens a lot in strip clubs which is why I don't frequent them ...LOL.  Needless to say, she didn't last long and that was her one and only tour at any of the brothels.

KittiMinx link wrote: ...If I'm having sex, I'm having sex. I'm enjoying myself and the only time my mind wanders is if I'm hungry. My dream party is someone feed me while we're having sex. People ought to live in the moment a little more. [/size]

KittiMinx link wrote:
Yes, exactly this. The strip club mentality is cut where you can cut and sell sell sell. The goal is to get customers to keep forking over cash and swiping their cards. Distract them enough so they don't notice they're paying for another dance after only a couple short songs. Get enough alcohol in them where they can't keep track of time or how much they're spending so you can knock out a dozen customers in a couple of hours and few know the difference. Run back and forth to the VIP room as many times as you can. 100% pure hustle. Because that's what the management stresses in those establishments as well. It can be very hard to escape the hustle mentality.


In prostitutions you're not selling something (stripping is selling the idea/fantasy of sex) you're selling an actual service that needs to be fulfilled. Women who come from stripping think it's an easy transition where it's just like working a club only they don't have to waste time dancing and knock out a bunch of handjobs and blowjobs and it's totally the same thing. When it's not. Unlike strip clubs brothel patrons usually notice when they're being hustled and don't appreciate it. And for girls who can't escape that mentality or can't cope with the idea that prostitution means genuinely being intimate with others, even people you're not normally attracted to, they don't last very long.


If you're not dedicated to providing top tier service to your customers for the agreed upon acts and amount of time whether it's for $500 or $5000 being a courtesan isn't for you.