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She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Sat Dec 08, 2018 8:29 pm
by Slednx
should her rate with you
A. Remain the same
B. Decrease
C. Increase
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 2:18 am
by SixT9er
If she was no longer attractive to me I would just stop seeing her
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 2:49 am
by Ironman
Slednx link wrote:
should her rate with you
A. Remain the same
B. Decrease
C. Increase
??
She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 4:21 am
by firefighter
I like women with slim athletic bodies and voluptuous figures too. If a Lady has gained weight, there's more to love. 8) Besides oftentimes when a Lady gains weight, her boobs get bigger too!
As long as a Lady keeps in shape with the added weight, it makes no difference to me.
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 4:26 am
by ChubbyChaser
I like curvy ladies, so it's definitely not a problem just because of some weight gain, and it could be a major plus! ;D For me it would be about shape, personality, attitude, confidence and of course the intangible.
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 6:15 am
by Cobia
The weight gain would have to very extreme for to change ATF. Well, I probable wouldn't do it at all.
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 6:36 am
by ShyKyle87
If she still looks healthy, its not a big deal. If its clear she's not healthy or she's letting herself go, I'd be concerned.
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 7:31 am
by TC
Oof...I would definitely advise against implying a woman sbould decrease her rate because she gained weight and therefore is less valuable. Even in a looks based industry that would be crushing. Women are aware when they've put on weight and IMO she'd have adjusted price on her own if she felt it was warranted.
If a skinny body is preferred just see someone else.
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 11:23 am
by billwh
I'm just not a fan of "full figured" women. I realize that is pretty much the norm today, if a woman has a good figure she's considered "skinny".
I know from my own history of gaining and losing weight, none of it extreme though, that it takes work and effort to not gain weight. It is not inevitable that people gain weight as they age, with work and effort they can keep the extra weight off. If a person doesn't want to go to the effort of keeping that weight off, that is kind of a turnoff to me.
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 12:38 pm
by Sonja
Women's weight naturally fluctuates except in rare cases. But it's not just weight that can change. Anything about a ladies "look" can be "THE thing" you liked about her. When a lady changes her look, she risks losing followers. BUT, she will also pick up new clients who like whatever the new look is.
Whether she should adjust her rates would be a case by case basis. If she has a long-term client who very specifically was loyal to her because he has a fetish for those tiny ankles he can fit his thumb & forefinger around, or for the way her shoulder blades protrude in a backless dress --- perhaps make an adjustment if that will keep him. However, when that's the case, price is not likely to make the difference. Guys like what they like and often have no control over what that is.
I try to keep my look intact because my lovers like something specific about me and that's why they chose to be with me in the first place. And my weight does fluctuate. I'm at my most miserable when I'm heavy even though my clients seem to love me with more weight on. Even so, I do everything I can to keep it off because I also have to be happy with myself. And THAT should be true for all ladies. She is at her sexiest when she feels sexy.
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Sun Dec 09, 2018 11:07 pm
by Prospector Bob
Actually had this happen to me. A Lady I'd partied with several times had gained a lot of weight the last time I saw her. While I was surprised at the weight gain, there was no way I was gonna turn down another party with her. From my experiences with her, I knew she would still give me a great party, and I was right! She retired right after that party and I'm fairly sure I was her last LPIN client. I miss her...
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2018 6:31 am
by georoc01
Would it apply the other way to? if a client gains weight should a lady start charging him more?
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2018 7:14 am
by SixT9er
georoc01 link wrote:
Would it apply the other way to? if a client gains weight should a lady start charging him more?
That’s up to her. She has the right to adjust her prices without any reason just as the client has the right to accept or decline her price.
Regarding my previous reply. If she is no longer attractive to me I wouldn’t party, as long as she was still attractive to me which she probably would be with a nominal weight gain I’d still party with her if she was a Lady I was going to repeat with to begin with.
I would never ask a Lady to party with me for less than previously paid under any circumstances
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2018 4:36 pm
by wayne208
It depends on the Ladies personality .. If She is still sweet and Funny Heck Yeah Pencil Me in .. If She outweighs Me By 50 Pounds than I do not see us Partying .
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2018 4:08 am
by Duck11
I don’t mind the weight increase, as long as I’m given the same great parties in the past. Price would remain the same for me.
However if a lady’s attitude changes and I’m told of a new pricing structure, then I choose to no longer see that person again.
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2018 2:56 pm
by Lee
Depends on whether You are going to see a Person or an object. If You are going to see a person, then it's not an issue. If You are going to see an object (like a roller coaster ride or a cigar) then perhaps You'd be better off to 'pick a different amusement ride'.
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Thu Dec 13, 2018 3:33 pm
by SixT9er
I go for the person but that person needs to stay attractive to me for me to want to have sex with them. I don’t have sex with Ladies I’m not attracted to so if the Lady gained so much weight I no longer found her attractive I just wouldn’t party with her. I would never suggest she take less as that is insulting imo. It has to do with attraction in my book
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Fri Dec 14, 2018 11:21 am
by Wildfire
Slednx link wrote:
should her rate with you
A. Remain the same
B. Decrease
C. Increase
Slednx is see you still like to stir thing up
Well scene we are talking about pay for play it would be decrease . Or maybe if you see her before she see you just turn around and leave. :-\
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Sun Dec 16, 2018 6:33 am
by Slednx
Ya know Wildfire, it's not so much stirring the pot as much as it is sharing real life experiences throughout my three decades of being around the butt huts as we locals refer to them as.
In this recent instance, my petite little partner had gained about 20-25 lbs. on her tiny frame. I was (almost) willing to let that pass until she informed me of her new pricing structure. Truth is, it sounded like a Team Bunnyranch member had got a hold of her and filled her head. I suddenly was now hearing the classic, " I usually get $1,500 for my parties" along with "kissing and DATY are specialities". Even with my skills as a negotiator, I was NOT willing to pay double for the same party. All of it along with the weight gain made it easy for me to walk.
So, in this case, the correct answer is "C".
Re: She's gained a bunch of weight since you last saw her....
Posted: Sun Dec 16, 2018 8:36 am
by Mollyblythe
This thread is definitely reminding me to stay out of the holiday cookie jar this Christmas season... haha!