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Sort of rephrasing this question from a book I just finished. 

Does or did (if she's no longer active) your ATF meet all your emotional needs?  Kind of interesting to think about. 

clevelandbrowns01 link wrote: Sort of rephrasing this question from a book I just finished. 

Does or did (if she's no longer active) your ATF meet all your emotional needs?  Kind of interesting to think about.

I am going to say yes, because in her own way she always made every effort with in reason of course to do so.  I was very high maintenance in between visits.  Getting on the mattress and having sex with me was actually the easy part for her. I ain't no hard body stud, but she got around my fuggliness by just closing her eyes while we were doing it!

Except for that one timw toawrds the end of our run. Kristine messed up and opened her eyes. I think she officially retired?? About a week or so later.?? She couldn't handle the horror movie that is me naked!??

Anyway in all seriousness I am going to say yes because I know at least with me she made every effort to do so.

Even now years after her retirement. She still checks in on me and in her own way makes an effort to let me know that even though she maybe gone she still cares. Wants to make sure I am still breathing.  Also maybe a small part of her is flattered I am still and always will be at least a little bit hung up on her.?

clevelandbrowns01 link wrote: Sort of rephrasing this question from a book I just finished. 

Does or did (if she's no longer active) your ATF meet all your emotional needs?  Kind of interesting to think about.

Yes , in every way.

clevelandbrowns01 link wrote: Sort of rephrasing this question from a book I just finished. 

Does or did (if she's no longer active) your ATF meet all your emotional needs?  Kind of interesting to think about.

Does anyone meet all of my emotional needs? No
Nor do I expect them to. I don’t think it should be expected that your ATF Courtesan will do that. She takes care of many emotional needs & most if not all during the time we are together along of course with my physical ones.
She is not your girlfriend, wife or any other significant other except perhaps a friend in the real world so expecting her to take on that responsibility is asking or expecting too much.
Remember these Ladies have real lives where they have to handle the emotion needs of their RW significant others...

SixT9er link wrote: Does anyone meet all of my emotional needs? No
Nor do I expect them to. I don’t think it should be expected that your ATF Courtesan will do that. She takes care of many emotional needs & most if not all during the time we are together along of course with my physical ones.
She is not your girlfriend, wife or any other significant other except perhaps a friend in the real world so expecting her to take on that responsibility is asking or expecting too much.
Remember these Ladies have real lives where they have to handle the emotion needs of their RW significant others...

I still think we need a "What SixT9er said" emoticon ...LOL ...since my thoughts are similar.  8)

SixT9er link wrote: Does anyone meet all of my emotional needs? No
Nor do I expect them to. I don’t think it should be expected that your ATF Courtesan will do that. She takes care of many emotional needs & most if not all during the time we are together along of course with my physical ones.
She is not your girlfriend, wife or any other significant other except perhaps a friend in the real world so expecting her to take on that responsibility is asking or expecting too much.
Remember these Ladies have real lives where they have to handle the emotion needs of their RW significant others...

You are still basically answering yes. You are just pointing out that she is not a real wife or girlfriend so you.need to keep things in perspective.  But you are still answering yes within the limits of lpin client provider arrangement. Not that I disagree I don't which is why I answered yes in her own way within reason.

Honestly even if she had brrw a real girlfriend or a wife. I am such a disaster she would have needed a masters or a PhD In clinical psychology to truly meet all my needs.??

I'm an "older" guy who has been married and had a few long-term girlfriends, I've been there, done that, and really do not want a real relationship.

So I'm basically paying a provider to act like my girlfriend. And I treat her like she's my girlfriend. The difference between real and not real is that I'm paying for the performance; the whole thing, not just the sex, and she gives it to me. We both know there is a certain limit that we don't go beyond. But that limit is pretty wide.

As far as having all my emotional needs met, it's like what has been said earlier, nobody could do that in real life or brothel life. The only person that can truly meet my emotional needs is me. But I'm a very introverted guy so my needs from other people are not that great. 

No, but that's a good thing.  It keeps things in perspective.