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Rachel Varga link wrote: I don't have a problem with couples. I enjoy DATY on me but I don't do it myself. I meet women like your wife that aren't bisexual and are more about soft play. Most women are like that for me. I'm not really sure if many avoid it but I am sure some do just like some avoid virgins (I can't understand why.)


Each type of party. Straight, couples, virgins, two girls, and so on have a different atmosphere and you have to approach them differently. You have to understand the mindset of each one of these. The truth is that some girls can't do that or don't want to bother. If you can't understand different people's needs then you don't stay around long.



As far as what to say. I would say contact them privately. I wouldn't post because then you get a ton of mail from everyone who says they are an expert at everything. I wrote a post on my blog about the "experts". Just say what you like because you definitely don't want someone that isn't into it. Hope this helps.

Vanityaffair link wrote: I’m glad you clarified your type of party. Now girls have an understanding of what you are into. Hopefully more girls will reach out to you. For me the more people the merrier I am.
XO Vanity

Titans link wrote: I had a question about this topic for the ladies also.  Now in a situation like this where the husband is totally into wanting to do the LPIN thing and the wife seems more hesitant-is that a turnoff to the courtesans?  It just seems like maybe it could be an issue as if the husband was forcing his woman into a 3some that she really doesn't want to engage in.  We all know Mr. Phoenix is a really nice guy (sure his wife is too), so totally know that Mr. Phoenix isn't forcing his wife into anything in their case.  Just was wondering after Phoenix had posted about his experiences at the brothels that maybe the courtesans who didn't know Phoenix couple from the message boards (and that he wasn't forcing her into a brothel or anything like that) maybe were thinking that and that was why some were giving them the cold shoulder.

RoxyGold link wrote: I have seen this happen from both sides of the couple. The Mr. is really into it and Mrs. is like hey wait, you wanna do WHAT? I thought we were just coming here for drinks and to play pool. On the other side, the Mrs. was all for it and Mr. was all hey b*$ch, this is cutting into my beer money, no way.

Everyone is different. Everyone’s interests and desires are different. To treat people the same is just silly.

Rachel Varga link wrote: Roxy is right. They are all different. That's why girls like her and I will quickly sum up the situation and know where to take.

Titans link wrote: I had a question about this topic for the ladies also.  Now in a situation like this where the husband is totally into wanting to do the LPIN thing and the wife seems more hesitant-is that a turnoff to the courtesans?  It just seems like maybe it could be an issue as if the husband was forcing his woman into a 3some that she really doesn't want to engage in.  We all know Mr. Phoenix is a really nice guy (sure his wife is really nice too), so totally know that Mr. Phoenix isn't forcing his wife into anything in their case.  Just was wondering after Phoenix had posted about his experiences at the brothels that maybe the courtesans who didn't know Phoenix couple from the message boards (and that he wasn't forcing her into a brothel or anything like that) maybe were thinking that and that was why some were giving them the cold shoulder.