BrothelLife

How has going to a brothel changed you?

I have made many new friends along with having some great times.

Cobia link wrote:
I have made many new friends along with having some great times.

Yeah, what my friend Cobia said.  ;D  I've always been kinda shy with the Ladies & going to the brothels has had a positive effect on my shyness. 

Got to know several sexy ladies. 

Made more trips to Nevada then before. Agree with Chuck Chaser I that I find ways to save for these trips and finally I have never been around so many beautiful women.

Mr. writing..  first time in my life I separated sex and love.  Always saw sex as making love.. loved the women I had sex with.  I know what real love is with the Mrs... and realized sex can be just that.  It is still weird for me.  We had sex a few ladies in Elko... afterwards it was weird talking and feeling a connection like a good friend, no love attachment.  I kissed my wife more than the ladies.

Since then I love my wife at a deeper level because it's not the sex, it's who she is, what she means, what she does, how she makes me feel. 

I think this was important for me.  

The Mrs... realizes she likes women’s beauty but, prefers the Mr’s dick  ;D

I have less fun money... but it's a good problem to have!  ;D

It increased my sexual output.

It allowed me to try things I was only curious about before, so it's made me cross out things on my sexual bucket list 

I find myself not spending money on useless stuff and saving it to put towards memories. Iteresting thing is it has resulted in less junk, great memories and somehow more money in the bank. Interesting.

Boone link wrote: I find myself not spending money on useless stuff and saving it to put towards memories. Iteresting thing is it has resulted in less junk, great memories and somehow more money in the bank. Interesting.

I think that memories can sometimes be better than a lot of the useless junk we keep around.

Rachel Varga link wrote: I think that memories can sometimes be better than a lot of the useless junk we keep around.

The older I get the more true that is. I am not old by any means but I am feeling the need to do more and buy less.

I have become more open minded on all subjects!

I’m much less intimidated by Beautiful women I don’t know.

I like to think I can have my stuff and a few memories!  Tough question.  It helps self confidence a little for someone like me who doesn't have very much. 

Hmm, while my first experience at a brothel was rather recent, and I still mull it over in my brain. I seem to enjoy music more, and the places I see as a truck driver. Not sure why.. Actually, I probably do, but that's a story for another time.

                                                                      For the better

SixT9er link wrote: I’m much less intimidated by Beautiful women I don’t know.

                                                          Thats right. So She's beautiful. So what. Millions are.

In has probably done more harm than good as far as my real life. Since I was in my 20's , have always had a fair amount of disposable income and lived near the huts. That has allowed me years of having sex with young, beautiful women when I wanted to.

As a consequence, as I have grown older and perhaps less attractive to those same ladies in real life, my tastes and expectations have not changed. I did not expand my tastes in women in real life to fit my growing age, have found myself too picky for my own good. Always falling back on the brothels to get what I wanted as far as women was always just too easy. Passed up a few good ones in real life because LPIN made me too unrealistic.

Rachel Varga link wrote: How has going to a brothel changed you?

I play in multiple hobby worlds:  LPIN, independent escorts, and the sugar world.  But my first hobby experiences all those years ago was with LPIN.  I'd always been the shy type and suspect that I pretty much came across as needy around women that I was very much attracted to.  Brothel parties broke me out of that rut and permanently altered my comfort level with women to whom I'm attracted.  I am no longer shy about any of it, and engage with the women I desire with confidence.