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Re: Trust
Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2017 1:38 am
by Cobia
I fully trust my new ATF. Can't give details but she has my permission to do things others couldn't.
Yes, I have had my trust betrayed. Like SixT9er said , just be careful.
My new ATF knows more about me then anyone.
Trust
Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2017 6:07 pm
by SixT9er
In this business how important is trust?
Do you trust the Lady you repeat with? Does she trust you?
Have you trusted a Lady and found out later she betrayed that trust.
Ladies have you trusted clients who betrayed you?
I have trusted several Ladies in the past and have had that trust broken by them. Does this mean I will I longer trust any? No as I just am more careful. I only have one Lady I now trust. If she broke my trust I might not trust another but can't say for sure as I place a great value on relationships and trust is vital to a good relationship.
How far do you trust your Lady/Client?
I have no secrets from the Lady I now trust. You could say my fate is in her hands. If she ever chose to betray me she could wreak havoc on my life but I trust she will never do that. Many would say I'm a fool. I choose to take the chance on trust and believe I'll be rewarded for it as opposed to being burned
Trust?
Re: Trust
Posted: Mon Sep 25, 2017 10:32 am
by rachelvarga
Trust is hard to come by in LPIN. People get away with more because hardly anyone outside lpin no cares about working girls.
It's best to keep your private things to yourself. Ladies should remember that a lot of girls gossip so if you don't want it known then don't say it.
When someone you trust hugs you and calls you a friend then turns around and talks shit about you then you understand that there are snakes everywhere.
Don't tell anyone where you live especially. Don't think it is beyond them to give out your information.
You don't want the following situation. You have a customer that is way into you and your good friend has been talking with him. (I don't care about that). You try to sever the relationship and he suddenly pops your real name and address on the screen. You ask him where he got it and he says that friend gave it to him. Of course, you don't believe it. No way she could do that. Later on down the road, you bust her for trying to interfere with your job, your award and blames you for all their shortcomings. All the time she was your friend, every time she hugged you it was fake, a sham.
Then you think back to how that guy got your real name and home address and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out.
That is what trust will get you in this business.
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Re: Trust
Posted: Thu Sep 28, 2017 12:09 pm
by Chicagobob
I trust working girls more than some women in my personal life. Maybe I'm naive, but I trust people until they give me a reason not to.
Re: Trust
Posted: Thu Sep 28, 2017 4:51 pm
by Dr. Who
When it comes to trust, I tend to rely on my gut feeling for the most part. Although, trust is something that is often earned over time and not necessarily a given.
I often pay with a credit card, so the ladies know my real name and other personal info, since an ID (drivers license) is also required. Although, I've never had my trust betrayed by any of the ladies in all the years that I've been partying at the brothels. At work is another story, since you can't often trust some colleagues who have no moral values in their attempt to climb the corporate ladder.
Anyways, after reading what happened to Rachel in her post, I can't blame her for feeling the way she does about trust. It's even worse when you're been betrayed by someone you've considered to be a friend.
Re: Trust
Posted: Thu Sep 28, 2017 5:21 pm
by Mikey
Well since I have been doing the banquet for the past couple years, thus receiving checks from the attendees, I know information about them that I would never divulge. Conversely they know my name and where I live, so it's a mutual trust. As to the ladies, just in the chit chat that goes with spending time with someone information is exchanged. So there is an element of trust involved in any relationship.