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I'm not going to say you should or should not make an appointment rather I'd like to talk about them in general


To me there are 3 types of appointments
Appointment with deposit
Appointment no deposit
Soft appointment


Appointment with or without deposit are essentially the same with a few differences that may or may not be large depending on the individual. An appointment with a Lady is like any other appointment you make in your life. You set a time and agree to be there at said time, simple right? Not as simple as it sounds. It's important to remember that you are taking the Lady off the floor for an hour or possibly more prior to the appointment, The Lady in that hour or so before is off the floor because she couldn't provide a party with a different client and still have enough time to get ready for your arrival so she is losing that potential money making time. Some Ladies may take more than just an hr to be prepared for you. For these reasons you should not causally make an appointment thinking "she's there anyway so why not lock her in for me?" Only make appointments when you are sure you will make it barring an unforeseen situation. If that unforeseen situation does occur you should notify the Lady immediately. If you cant get a hold of her directly contact the house. If you're in a coma you may be forgiven for not notifying them but that's strictly up to the Lady.


Soft Appointments are much looser and therefore less guarantee the Lady will be there right when you arrive. I use this approach almost exclusively and the Lady has always been available within 30 minutes of my arrival. To make a soft appointment you make sure the Lady will be working the day/shift when you will be there. Then you give a general time range such as 7-9pm. Usually as the time gets nearer and my plans solidify I let the Lady know my more precise eta. Depending on many factors she may be waiting for you or may be in a party but you will most likely have the opportunity to party with her. I use this method because I am always stopping at the house during a trip across the state so there are many variables. I will also let the Lady know if its looking later than what I thought and let her decide if she still wants to see me. Most Ladies are accommodating and unless its an extreme change will alter their schedule and still see you, at least that's been my experience.


I'm not a big fan of an appointment with someone you've never met but if that's the Lady you want and you've had enough communication to where you're sure then go for it. One thing to remember is even though an appointment has been set neither party is obligated to commit to the party. Maybe the guy is gross and smelly, maybe the Lady isn't what she looked like in the pics, maybe there's just no chemistry or you cant agree on price. These are all legitimate reasons why it might not happen and also why I council against appointments with unknowns. Price or chemistry are the two reasons I've heard most for appointments going south with a Lady you've never met. Ladies aren't going to discuss prices specifically with unknowns and even a "ballpark" if discussed isn't real helpful if you don't know the size of the park. Affordable to me may not be affordable to the next guy and may seem cheap to the third.


My recommendation is only make appointments when you're sure that's the Lady you want to be with.

Ok, sounds good.  I may try appointments.

I am a big fan of soft appointments. If you let me know about when you are planning on being here for a pretty standard party, I will make sure to be in-house during that time and do my best to remain available.
Now if its something that requires prep such as anal or an outdate, I expect a hard appointment. With anal, timing is everything, so if I prep and you are 2 hours late, that prep went to waste and you likely aren't getting that part of the party now. Outdates or overnights are best with appointments so I can pack and be prepared ahead of time. Especially if reservations of tickets are needed.[/size]
I don't require deposits but definitely appreciate them. I am not to the point in my career yet where I am non-stop busy so I don't yet have to have a deposit to save that time slot. I will likely be available when you want me with a little notice.[/size]

Lexie,


I can definitely see where for special party prep an appointment should be made.


I should have clarified for “normal” type parties that don’t require such preparation

If I will be there during the time someone wants an appointment just come by and meet me. I'll make time to talk with you. If you want to make sure I am available then you should make an appointment. I prefer a deposit of some sort so I know you aren't bullshitting me.


A good way to get rid of time wasters is to request an appointment. For example I get a lot of, "I'm coming to see you" and then they want to talk non stop. I politely explain that an appointment is required to keep talking because if not they will talk talk talk and never show up.


It's like webcam. Talk talk talk in the public chat and then never go to private because they jerked off the moment you said something dirty.

For my next trip, I did two of the three. I made a soft appointment for the evening before so we can reconnect and take care of planning, negotiation, and payment. And a hard appointment with deposit for the following morning.

Since discussing money isn't possible outside the room, and the standard is 10% of your budget, I think the deposit gives the courtesan a pretty good idea of your budget for the party.

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Why did you leave a deposit? Have you stood her up before? Does she just require them?


I’d think if you are a known quantity and are seeing her the next day none should be required

SixT9er link wrote: Why did you leave a deposit? Have you stood her up before? Does she just require them?


I’d think if you are a known quantity and are seeing her the next day none should be required

I chose to put in a deposit for a few reasons. The party is a couple of months away, it's on her usual day off, and now she knows my predicted budget.

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Roadiedoug link wrote:

SixT9er wrote: Why did you leave a deposit? Have you stood her up before? Does she just require them?


I’d think if you are a known quantity and are seeing her the next day none should be required

I chose to put in a deposit for a few reasons. The party is a couple of months away, it's on her usual day off, and now she knows my predicted budget.

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Ok I misunderstood I thought the party was the next day.


With it being her day off I can kinda see why you left the deposit