Space Duck link wrote:
I was wondering what rules others follow when selecting a lady to party with. I have a couple of my own.
- The lady must have been in LPIN for at least one year. This should weed out the ladies who don't enjoy the job. This rule is my deal-breaker.
- The lady must also participate in at least 2 of the following: forums, social media, personal website. This shows me she's serious about her job and looking to grow her business. Plus, it gives me an idea of whether we'd hit it off and have a great party or not. This rule is a little more fluid, but still important.
Those are really the only two rules I have beyond basic ones like attraction and not picking a lady who looks like someone I know.
Wow - good for you boys for being so open and non-judgmental of the ladies. We have a laundry list of items:
1 - We prefer she's a bit older! We have kids in their early 20's and the idea of having a party with someone that could date our children creates a bit of uneasy in both of us.
2 - We prefer the lady is legitimate bi-sexual (or any of the new fancy names for sexual openness nowadays). Or, at least we'd like her to be a good enough actress to fool us.
3 - We prefer some imperfections. When you're middle aged, the idea of being nude with your husband and another woman is a bit intimidating. When her body is perfect, it becomes difficult for there to be comfort and relaxation. We'd prefer some signs of gravity, so aging, some wear and tear..... heck - crows feet, wrinkles, love handles ..... there's just too many perfect woman in LPIN!
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We could probably go on a bit, but while this is what we look for - we've always wound up with perfect, young, fabulous woman who may not actually be into the ladies and are so wonderful that we'd welcome them into our family if they wanted to date our kids
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We are here considering the screen name "Iron-Couple".